“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ItsOnNow said:
I'm not a nice guy, as described as the validation seeking,ass kissing, human doormat type, I'm more a regular guy. As for alpha, it seems some guys already are. you either are or not.

I have trouble valuing myself, I am trying to get over it. I am trying to figure out how too.

I am trying to work up the action/initiative to aproach and get in the field.

It's like I am trying to find that fine tuned way of going for it.
You are not a regular guy. If you were a regular guy, you would have taken my advice. I am not here to act as a guru. When I truly feel like helping someone, I give my most heartfelt advice.

Get out of your head, you cannot do a perfect approach the first time. you need to take it inch by inch, small chunks at a time.

I am not going to argue or motivate you any further. Maybe no one else will either. YOU are the ONLY person that can help yourself right now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know. I have been trying to help myself. But something is and has been holding me back. I haven't started, even since I first found this site years ago, to do it all little by little and improve myself. That's why I feel so behind.
 

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Imagine her in her underwear... wait...
 
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