Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I was going to ask the same tihng.Desdinova said:You still use Internet Explorer? Why?![]()
I don't use Firefox. I use Opera. And it's not an anti-Microsoft thing, I use it because it's faster, it's safer, it has tabs.... oh wait, Microsoft FINALLY caught up with the times and starting using tabs in IE7.Hahahaha. Nerds like firefox more than internet explorer, because it is made by the greatest pimp ever, Bill Gates.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
...and crashes a lot. I seriously got fed up with that hunk of crap crashing on me damn near everytime I used it. And no, it's not just my windows install, I've had it crash repeatedly on every computer I've used with IE.Internet explorer is user friendly, is built into windows, has support for active-x and other useful technologies, displays both standards and none standards based websites.
Sounds good on paper, but I find it loads a lot faster regardless of what's written on paper.A) Both load slowers, because internet explorer is built into windows,
I do?B) You have to stop what you doing and find a plug-in if page does not display properly.
I never said it did.C) Having either opera or firefox does not increase your internet bandwidth.