"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you compete against good looking white guys

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Ringleader41

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I know the answer is to have better game, but I'm trying to develop my game currently. These guys are the creme of the crop, so they don't have to a lot of game to game women. This kind of intimidates me too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ringleader41 said:
I know the answer is to have better game, but I'm trying to develop my game currently. These guys are the creme of the crop, so they don't have to a lot of game to game women. This kind of intimidates me too.

If you're not a good looking white guy, then how do you know that they don't need a lot of game to get women? Have you walked in their shoes? Have you lived their life? Do you know how they feel every day?

My point is - you are who you are. Stop making excuses and stop worrying about sh*t you can't control. Doesn't matter how good you are, or how good-looking...there's always someone better. That's life...grow up.
 

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HOW DO I COMPETE AGAINST MYSELF THEN??????? Op here is something to always remember... ONLY fight your fight; run your race. Why waste time competing with anyone??? Look for your personal best!! There will always be better looking; bigger/ nicer build; bigger c0ck; wealthier than you. Do you and do not worry about us good looking white guys!!

I started to tear you a new a$$ because of this post, but I figured I could teach you kindly instead of ripping you up.

DO YOUR BEST and screw the REST!!
 

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It's not some pissing match. You get to the girl first and run your best game. You might get her or you might not.

I never DIRECTLY try to compete with another guy. I do the best I can. It's just me and her. Despite that, have some of these girls later ditched me for hotter guys? Absolutely. It sucks but it happens. I just move on.

It's not really about race. There are hot guys of all races that have a big edge with women. There's nothing you can do about that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Try to steal their bikes!

No seriously its not about race, its more about look and status, social proof and muscles will do if you play your cards well and as Mike said dont compete directly with other guys, try to get the chick and move on if she treat you as a toy/entertainment object fighting for her pleasure.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Try to steal their bikes!

No seriously its not about race, its more about look and status, social proof and muscles will do if you play your cards well and as Mike said dont compete directly with other guys, try to get the chick and move on if she treat you as a toy/entertainment object fighting for her pleasure.
Agreed, but I especially like to emphasize the last part. Some girls get off on guys competing for them or even worse getting into a physical confrontation over them. IMO, that is the WORST kind of AWing. To participate in that is worse than feeding a troll. Take your self-respect and eject.
 

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I am a black haired Spaniard. I've had a white girl who was really into me say something like "We don't really match but we fit well together"... she really loved the sex but I can tell she was just horny for my **** and who I was but was just using me.

She's now married to a blonde haired, white guy like her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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