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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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I know the answer is to have better game, but I'm trying to develop my game currently. These guys are the creme of the crop, so they don't have to a lot of game to game women. This kind of intimidates me too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ringleader41 said:
I know the answer is to have better game, but I'm trying to develop my game currently. These guys are the creme of the crop, so they don't have to a lot of game to game women. This kind of intimidates me too.
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If you're not a good looking white guy, then how do you know that they don't need a lot of game to get women? Have you walked in their shoes? Have you lived their life? Do you know how they feel every day?

My point is - you are who you are. Stop making excuses and stop worrying about sh*t you can't control. Doesn't matter how good you are, or how good-looking...there's always someone better. That's life...grow up.
 
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HOW DO I COMPETE AGAINST MYSELF THEN??????? Op here is something to always remember... ONLY fight your fight; run your race. Why waste time competing with anyone??? Look for your personal best!! There will always be better looking; bigger/ nicer build; bigger c0ck; wealthier than you. Do you and do not worry about us good looking white guys!!

I started to tear you a new a$$ because of this post, but I figured I could teach you kindly instead of ripping you up.

DO YOUR BEST and screw the REST!!
 
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It's not some pissing match. You get to the girl first and run your best game. You might get her or you might not.

I never DIRECTLY try to compete with another guy. I do the best I can. It's just me and her. Despite that, have some of these girls later ditched me for hotter guys? Absolutely. It sucks but it happens. I just move on.

It's not really about race. There are hot guys of all races that have a big edge with women. There's nothing you can do about that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Try to steal their bikes!

No seriously its not about race, its more about look and status, social proof and muscles will do if you play your cards well and as Mike said dont compete directly with other guys, try to get the chick and move on if she treat you as a toy/entertainment object fighting for her pleasure.
 
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Who Dares Win said:
Try to steal their bikes!

No seriously its not about race, its more about look and status, social proof and muscles will do if you play your cards well and as Mike said dont compete directly with other guys, try to get the chick and move on if she treat you as a toy/entertainment object fighting for her pleasure.
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Agreed, but I especially like to emphasize the last part. Some girls get off on guys competing for them or even worse getting into a physical confrontation over them. IMO, that is the WORST kind of AWing. To participate in that is worse than feeding a troll. Take your self-respect and eject.
 
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I am a black haired Spaniard. I've had a white girl who was really into me say something like "We don't really match but we fit well together"... she really loved the sex but I can tell she was just horny for my **** and who I was but was just using me.

She's now married to a blonde haired, white guy like her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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