"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How do you cold read?
- Thread starter cyp6
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
everywomanshero
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EX: commenting on how something about her looks innocent, but you know she's really a bad girl because of X.
Here I've started to go one way, but then I've given it a surprise twist at the end. Actually, I just stole that from swinggcat, but you can make your own stuff up easy enough.
It's mostly about blanket statements and educated guesses. I.e.
"I believe you are an honest person, but you occasionally tell white lies to protect people".
There aren't many people who would disagree with this as most people like to think of themselves as honest and most people feel they can justify their lies.
"I sense that you have been heartbroken in the past and find it hard to fully trust someone".
Most people have been heartbroken at some point in their lives, and if the person is single, they have not met the partner who has earned their trust, so it is a safe bet they don't trust anyone fully.
Also, you can judge a lot from the way a person dresses. If she is dressed colourfully or unconventionally, you can say:
"You are a creative person who likes to express yourself. You want to be heard and want people to notice your ideas....and so on."
If she's dressed classy, you adapt and say:
"You are very driven and have your sights set on success...and so on".
It's all generic stuff, just like all horroscopes, tarot and palm readings etc. Most people fail at this by trying too hard and trying to be too personal.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
"You are warm, but you are cautious because you have been hurt in the past"
EVERYONE has been hurt in the past (and who is going to argue with someone telling them they are warm)
The trick is to be so ambiguous that they can find an experience to apply your observation to.
ME: Wats ur name ?
HER: Carol... urs ?
ME: *insert cold read* Stop playing !? Ur lieing, I can't believe you'd lie to me
HER: What !!! I'm Carol... wats wrong ?
ME: I alway get a bad girl vibe from Carol's... look here, if you say you're an aquarious... i'm going to go crazy
HER: I'm ____
ME: Ohhh I'm ____, do u know ___ and ____ result in a bad couple... sorry but if we get together, its not gonna work
^ ^ All of my converations in the beginning generally fall into this type of prototype...
-Cod3r
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You might look at the inside of a computer and at a specific wire and have no idea what it accomplishes, but if you take it out all you know is that the computer won't turn on...
-Cod3r
Well, money if you do it professionally. Otherwise, maybe a bit of attention.rrrrr said:
Certainly not useful for attracting women, unless they're looking for a court jester to entertain them, in which case you can try juggling and diving through hoops too!