Alot of people i hang out with dont like me and as being asian ass wipes they spread rumors. Now some people dont like me cause of the rumors. So i want to know how to change someone's outlook on you. Get back to me on this
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do you change someones negative outlook on you to a positive one?
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You don't.
You can't change other people. They can only change themselves.
The only thing you can do is stand up for yourself and not take any **** because you are Asian, or for any other reason. Stand up for yourself and don't let them walk all over you. They might still hate you after, but at least you got the people's respect.
No one has respect for a coward.
You can't change other people. They can only change themselves.
The only thing you can do is stand up for yourself and not take any **** because you are Asian, or for any other reason. Stand up for yourself and don't let them walk all over you. They might still hate you after, but at least you got the people's respect.
No one has respect for a coward.
My advice is just be yourself, you will never really know what other people think of you, but the only person who you need to make happy is you, and if you are happy in time those who do like you will reveal themselves.
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*clap* *clap* *clap*Augie said:My advice is just be yourself, you will never really know what other people think of you, but the only person who you need to make happy is you, and if you are happy in time those who do like you will reveal themselves.
Worst advice on this thread. The dude said he has problems with people talking badly about him behind his back and being racist towards him.
Did you even read his post? Or did you just regurgitate this?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Call_Me_Daddy said:*clap* *clap* *clap*
Worst advice on this thread. The dude said he has problems with people talking badly about him behind his back and being racist towards him.
Did you even read his post? Or did you just regurgitate this?
I read the dude's post and stand by what I wrote for its simple the only person who matters is you, so if someone wants to backstab you, then let them, sure it isn't nice but if he knows that a person or persons is backstabbing him then he can either confront the person or say I don't care what you think and move on.
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I think if you stopped calling them "Asian ass wipes" they won't spread rumours about you being a d!ckhead.