Alot of people i hang out with dont like me and as being asian ass wipes they spread rumors. Now some people dont like me cause of the rumors. So i want to know how to change someone's outlook on you. Get back to me on this
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How do you change someones negative outlook on you to a positive one?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Call_Me_Daddy
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You don't.
You can't change other people. They can only change themselves.
The only thing you can do is stand up for yourself and not take any **** because you are Asian, or for any other reason. Stand up for yourself and don't let them walk all over you. They might still hate you after, but at least you got the people's respect.
No one has respect for a coward.
You can't change other people. They can only change themselves.
The only thing you can do is stand up for yourself and not take any **** because you are Asian, or for any other reason. Stand up for yourself and don't let them walk all over you. They might still hate you after, but at least you got the people's respect.
No one has respect for a coward.
My advice is just be yourself, you will never really know what other people think of you, but the only person who you need to make happy is you, and if you are happy in time those who do like you will reveal themselves.
Call_Me_Daddy
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*clap* *clap* *clap*Augie said:My advice is just be yourself, you will never really know what other people think of you, but the only person who you need to make happy is you, and if you are happy in time those who do like you will reveal themselves.
Worst advice on this thread. The dude said he has problems with people talking badly about him behind his back and being racist towards him.
Did you even read his post? Or did you just regurgitate this?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
diablo
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Call_Me_Daddy said:*clap* *clap* *clap*
Worst advice on this thread. The dude said he has problems with people talking badly about him behind his back and being racist towards him.
Did you even read his post? Or did you just regurgitate this?
I read the dude's post and stand by what I wrote for its simple the only person who matters is you, so if someone wants to backstab you, then let them, sure it isn't nice but if he knows that a person or persons is backstabbing him then he can either confront the person or say I don't care what you think and move on.
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I think if you stopped calling them "Asian ass wipes" they won't spread rumours about you being a d!ckhead.