"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you buy your way into social circles?

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Some have mentioned that you can use money to get into social circles. But how? Down town where I live, the best you can do is pay for a cover to a club, but that's not exactly prestigious.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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....and the ghost of Pook (etc etc etc) wept.

...A fool and his money.......this guy has "mark" written all over him.
 

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Don't bother trying unless you want to get taken for a ride.

Strive to be a person people look up to and want to be associated with, everyone will want to be your friend. You can't *buy* your way into friendship/relationship----> once the money goes so will they.
 

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Buy more hookers. Boom! Social circle increased and right up your alley. Or 40 lbs of coke and hit the strip club.

For the record I've never done drugs.......just trying to help him find his nitche based on his lifestyle and ceiling lol
 

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This nigga online All mofo day, Im going to a sick party tonight, expect a lit field report tommorow fellas
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't bother trying unless you want to get taken for a ride.

Strive to be a person people look up to and want to be associated with, everyone will want to be your friend. You can't *buy* your way into friendship/relationship----> once the money goes so will they.
My money will never go away, but I'm wondering if this was even possible. @da dynamically himself said he did this and it's how he used his money effectively without actually paying for sex.

I don't even know where or if these places exist.
 

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1. I don't think you flip houses.

2. I don't think you flip houses.

Why? Because you have zero common sense on here or with women (obviously).

Common sense, getting women and business go hand in hand. With out the first once you're totally fvcked in life. That would be you.
 
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1. I don't think you flip houses.

2. I don't think you flip houses.

Why? Because you have zero common sense on here or with women (obviously).

Common sense, getting women and business go hand in hand. With out the first once you're totally fvcked in life. That would be you.
Please tell me what kind of business you run. I doubt it's even much of a business in the first place. Lots of people refer to themselves as business owners, but the point would be if the business makes a decent amount of money.

You're right, I don't flip houses. I'm on the first one right now. So it is inaccurate to say that I flip houses until this one is sold.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/zvzrztqevsgno4x/0901171149b.jpg?dl=0

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https://www.dropbox.com/s/yrvveinwhurtdqu/1031171620.jpg?dl=0

You're right, you do need common sense with women. Probably why I rarely talk to them and don't keep one around as a gf because what is the logical reason for needing them for anything besides sex? Probably why I can see through their high "SMV" and see the REAL worthless center.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I own auto, commercial and residential glass companies. Thus the username Glassguy. I also have rental properties (residential only). I do fine.
 

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I own auto, commercial and residential glass companies. Thus the username Glassguy. I also have rental properties (residential only). I do fine.
You quite the early wakeup guy :p , I bet.

Its quite à business, usually once you get in a sector.. you are set
 

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Richard what is meant by saying "buy your way into social circles" is this:

You can pay to be a member of certain organizations or you can pay for things that give you entree into social circles you otherwise wouldn't have had access to previously. For example, if you join an exclusive and expensive health club (there is one near me that runs $175/month for an individual - family memberships are much higher) you'll be moving in more successful social circles JUST by joining that club. So other people you meet and chat with in that club are going to be more affluent rather than less. Often times these type clubs have social calendars and as a member you are included and invited to various events. People who can't afford the cost of the membership are generally not going to be present, so you'll be moving in circles with a wealthier group of folks. These folks will also be MORE INFLUENTIAL as a group than the general population so they are good to know.

Another example would be becoming an art patron or a theater patron or becoming a donor to a charity that you want to assist. In buying art from higher end galleries, or going to the theater regularly (or becoming a donor) or benefiting a charity you'll meet other people who have money because these are things people with money do. You'll be invited to various events thanks to your purchase and/or your patronage and this does have social benefits.

Finally you can do this by frequenting high end venues (the expensive steakhouse with the swanky lounge/bar area for example). You go there to eat, but if you sit at the bar and chat to other diners, you'll be chatting to other people who can afford and choose to eat in an exclusive or expensive venue.

So you are buying your way in, but indirectly if that makes sense. You aren't paying to play with the cool kids, except you ARE, it's just you are paying for a piece of art or a club membership and the social advantages are a side effect.
 
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How did You aquire This?
It's a 53 year old business. I knew the former owner very well and he had a heart attack several years before and was ready to retire. So I bought him out. It was a good deal for the both of us. I took the business and expanded it, as well as increased the revenue and lowered overhead. In getting ready to open another location.

Before that I was a consultant for a big corporation based in NJ/NYC.

I've been in the glass business for 12 years now. Don't think my butt didn't pucker when I left a great paying job to walk out on a thin limb when I bought the business. It was a risk, but I was young enough then to recover if it didnt work out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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