"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do you build the kind of status that gets you hot girls?

drakeisfire

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In society we give high status to jobs like doctor, lawyer, and your stereotypical white collar professions. Now in the real world where you don't have that built in community like you had in college or high school, it is tough to really get a grasp of status.

So for the guys in here who actually know what they are talking about, how do you build the kind of status that gets you hot girls without you having to go out of your way to do a ton of cold approaches or rely on online dating?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oh great its this tool again. hey listen2olly...can u stop rephrasing the same question/thread constantly. its annoying
 

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To build the kind of status that gets you hot girls, you must first get hot girls.
 

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In ourwe give high status to jobs like doctor, lawyer, and your stereotypical white collar professions. Now in the real world where you don't have that built in community like you had in college or high school, it is tough to really get a grasp of status.

So for the guys in here who actually know what they are talking about, how do you build the kind of status that gets you hot girls without you having to go out of your way to do a ton of cold approaches or rely on online dating?
Start your own business. It shows guts, courage, confidence, smarts--all the qualities that attract high value females. You may get crazies too as I do but I'm much better now at identifying them. Chicks dig a guy with balls and nothing is tougher than starting your own gig and navigating it profitability for the long haul.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Olly since you've got a lot of time on your hands in your basement anyway why not pick up a guitar join a band. If it's a goth / emo band they ll probably like your basement
 

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Every high status profession, hobby or endeavor has it's own "built in community".
This is correct.

Find a way to THRIVE in whatever profession, social group or community you are part of. Then the hot girls will follow.

Being an actor won't get you laid, but being a TOP actor in Hollywood will. Owning a car won't get you laid but owning a Lamborghini might. Being a comedian won't get you laid, but being one of the BEST will.

On a side note.. I know guys who are relatively average and get hot girls. Especially older guys who date much younger women. Its all about how you compare to her other options and what UNIQUE value you can bring to the table. Unique is very important. That's how you crush the competition.

Another reason why all this "don't show emotion" and "be a robot" advice people give on this forum is horse sh*t. The more authentic and UNIQUE you are the better.
 

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Trust fund kids and generally upper, upper tier wealthy people. I know a guy who is the brother of a professional athlete. Has women throwing themselves at him, literally.
 
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