"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you build the kind of status that gets you hot girls?

drakeisfire

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In society we give high status to jobs like doctor, lawyer, and your stereotypical white collar professions. Now in the real world where you don't have that built in community like you had in college or high school, it is tough to really get a grasp of status.

So for the guys in here who actually know what they are talking about, how do you build the kind of status that gets you hot girls without you having to go out of your way to do a ton of cold approaches or rely on online dating?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oh great its this tool again. hey listen2olly...can u stop rephrasing the same question/thread constantly. its annoying
 

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To build the kind of status that gets you hot girls, you must first get hot girls.
 

Dash Riprock

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In ourwe give high status to jobs like doctor, lawyer, and your stereotypical white collar professions. Now in the real world where you don't have that built in community like you had in college or high school, it is tough to really get a grasp of status.

So for the guys in here who actually know what they are talking about, how do you build the kind of status that gets you hot girls without you having to go out of your way to do a ton of cold approaches or rely on online dating?
Start your own business. It shows guts, courage, confidence, smarts--all the qualities that attract high value females. You may get crazies too as I do but I'm much better now at identifying them. Chicks dig a guy with balls and nothing is tougher than starting your own gig and navigating it profitability for the long haul.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Olly since you've got a lot of time on your hands in your basement anyway why not pick up a guitar join a band. If it's a goth / emo band they ll probably like your basement
 

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Every high status profession, hobby or endeavor has it's own "built in community".
This is correct.

Find a way to THRIVE in whatever profession, social group or community you are part of. Then the hot girls will follow.

Being an actor won't get you laid, but being a TOP actor in Hollywood will. Owning a car won't get you laid but owning a Lamborghini might. Being a comedian won't get you laid, but being one of the BEST will.

On a side note.. I know guys who are relatively average and get hot girls. Especially older guys who date much younger women. Its all about how you compare to her other options and what UNIQUE value you can bring to the table. Unique is very important. That's how you crush the competition.

Another reason why all this "don't show emotion" and "be a robot" advice people give on this forum is horse sh*t. The more authentic and UNIQUE you are the better.
 

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Trust fund kids and generally upper, upper tier wealthy people. I know a guy who is the brother of a professional athlete. Has women throwing themselves at him, literally.
 
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