"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you build attraction??

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How do you guys build attraction through conversation??
What are some if the tactics you use??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is the first time I've posted this question....
 
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f283000 said:
why are you reposting this?
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Do you mean the post about high value?? I thought they were two different tactics, although high value would build the attraction you seek...
 
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There aren't any "tactics". There is the development of good character through hard work and time. Read and educate yourself of on what attraction is, how it works, and then you'll see the "tactics" we use.

Start with the definition of the attraction, then read the DJ Bible attraction section. Then go out and practice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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movistar said:
Do you mean the post about high value?? I thought they were two different tactics, although high value would build the attraction you seek...
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High value is good, and it can take YEARS to fully develop it. Short-term thinking is good, but a good long-term plan is great. The long run becomes the short run before you'll even notice it.

Think of it like an athlete's career. Your dating prime runs a good 15-20 years. If you're fortunate enough to begin developing yourself in your teens, by your late twenties your game will be so mad you won't believe what you're pulling off.
 
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