"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How do you build attraction??
- Thread starter movistar
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Do you mean the post about high value?? I thought they were two different tactics, although high value would build the attraction you seek...f283000 said:why are you reposting this?
Diaforetikos
Senior Don Juan
Start with the definition of the attraction, then read the DJ Bible attraction section. Then go out and practice.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BettorOffSingle
Banned
High value is good, and it can take YEARS to fully develop it. Short-term thinking is good, but a good long-term plan is great. The long run becomes the short run before you'll even notice it.movistar said:Do you mean the post about high value?? I thought they were two different tactics, although high value would build the attraction you seek...
Think of it like an athlete's career. Your dating prime runs a good 15-20 years. If you're fortunate enough to begin developing yourself in your teens, by your late twenties your game will be so mad you won't believe what you're pulling off.