How do you break up with someone

[Aquen]

How do you break up with someone while still maintaining good feelings between you?
Before the christmas break, i asked a girl out and now i don't want to date her anymore... But I cant just end it because I go to quite a small school, and I hope to move onto one of her good friends, which wont be possible if she is bitter about it.


Whats the most mutual/nicest way to break up with someone?

 

[Taker]

Say it's not her fault, it's yours. Like school work is taking up so much of your time that you can't spend time with her. Or even you havent gotten over your ex yet or something.

 

[MightyMate]

Do not say its her fault. It means You found somebody else. Thats what girls always do in this situatuion. You cant break up and be friends if she cares about You. Doesnt matter how You gonna break. Put Yourself in her position.

 

[AC/DC]

Tell her you dont have feelings for her anymore, and you're sorry for hurting her.

There's no way she can argue with that, because it's not a reason, it's your opinion.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

God damn! Jeez... you people need to think before you post these kinda questions.

It's not even hard!

Go tell her in person. Go to her locker, and do it in private... just say "Look <name>, I can't see me being with you, I'm sorry but I'm going to have to break this off with you, I'm sorry. I hope we can be friends still."

Is that really hard? Anybody could have came up with that. Damn.