"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you break up with someone

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How do you break up with someone while still maintaining good feelings between you?
Before the christmas break, i asked a girl out and now i don't want to date her anymore... But I cant just end it because I go to quite a small school, and I hope to move onto one of her good friends, which wont be possible if she is bitter about it.


Whats the most mutual/nicest way to break up with someone?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Say it's not her fault, it's yours. Like school work is taking up so much of your time that you can't spend time with her. Or even you havent gotten over your ex yet or something.
 
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Do not say its her fault. It means You found somebody else. Thats what girls always do in this situatuion. You cant break up and be friends if she cares about You. Doesnt matter how You gonna break. Put Yourself in her position.
 
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Tell her you dont have feelings for her anymore, and you're sorry for hurting her.

There's no way she can argue with that, because it's not a reason, it's your opinion.
 
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God damn! Jeez... you people need to think before you post these kinda questions.

It's not even hard!

Go tell her in person. Go to her locker, and do it in private... just say "Look <name>, I can't see me being with you, I'm sorry but I'm going to have to break this off with you, I'm sorry. I hope we can be friends still."

Is that really hard? Anybody could have came up with that. Damn.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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