How do you become the perfect A'sshole?

[Latinoman]

Let’s use Pulp Fiction (the movie) as an example. Perhaps, not the best of examples, but good enough to illustrate the point:

1- Bad Boy = Butch (Bruce Willis)
2- Evil Man = Vincent Vega (J. Travolta) and Jules Winnfield (Samuel L. Jackson)
3- Punk = Ringo (Tim Roth)
4- Aszhole = Jimmie Dimmick (Tarantino)



Butch was a tough man. He was not a criminal. He was not evil. But he was capable of going to an extreme out of survival instinct.

Vega and Jules were cool characters. Tough guys for sure. But they have zero respect for life; therefore, they were evil men.

Ringo was just a punk.

Jimmie Dimmick was an azz. LOL.

But that’s MY view. It is obvious that everybody has a different view. The thing is…many women say they like “bad boys”. And from that context (which I’m assuming is the one in this Forum), they don’t mean “evil man” or “criminals”. Remember the “boy” after the “bad”.

 

[organizedconfusion]

Latinoman
Laugh all you want. Of one thing I'm certain: you are clueless.

How many people have you killed or sent to the hospital? How many of your inner cycle have being killed or sent to the hospital or jail?

What I personally find laughable is that you have no clue about life in the barrios or streets. The "highly doubt" and "most likely" terminology you used are clear indication that you have doubts in your statements.

I don't. I have zero doubts. That's why I'm posting on this issue.

I came from the streets, and quite honestly, I have no issues when it comes to hurting somebody or taking somebody's life. I am amoral. I just choose to respect the law and understand the right path. I can go to any dangerous place (Hell Kitchen, Miami, Puerto Rico, Colombia, D.C., etc.) and the people there nod at me or even shake my hand...without knowing who the heck I am. Why? Because people can tell. Or maybe, because I'm a "cool kat". Whichever the reason, I don't care.

My ex-wife (a white, red head, from the middle class U.S.) used to go to nightclubs with me that no other white person would visit. But she went because she felt save. My current girlfriend...also feels save around me. And she should.

That's what makes a man a "bad boy". His ability to go to the extreme IF necessary. His ability to command respect from those punks and criminals and gang bangers...without uttering a word. Once you manage to do those things, then and ONLY then, you can call yourself a "bad boy".

Braking the law, viciously taking somebody's life, raping...that's not a "bad boy" as you claim. They ALREADY have a name and that name is "criminal" or "punk" or "gang bangers" or "socio-path" or "rapist".

Why call a criminal or convict or rapist a "bad boy"? They already have a name: criminal or convict or rapist or assassin.

The terminology "bad boy" was invented to separate the CRIMINALS from those that can obey the law while at the same time having the capability to go to the extreme...if necessary (and as importantly, command respect). Those same bad boys are the ones that do whatever they want in a relationship.

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no need to get huffy chief, correct me if i am wrong but 'bad boys' that follows the rules-kinda takes the fun outta bein' bad dosen't it?...it really is the stupidest concept i have ever heard of in a while ..with all due respect

anyone who is unforgivingly themselves with a total disregard for what the rest of the world thinks of him..is a REAL BAD BOY in my book..do what you want man..who cares what people think

 

[Rex Man]

This will prolly be impossible to settle considering how blurry the azzhole/bad boy/Thug/Evil Guy/Punk lines are but I have 2 pennies:

I have a friend in jail for murder: Prior to his incarceration he pulled very, very little tail.

I have a friend that went through high school and got straight A's and pulles very, very little tail.

I have a friend that doesn't go out looking for trouble, but will let no one disrespect him. He grew up in tough Chicago suburb. He pulls 'Rex Man' amounts of tail. Breaks the law daily.

Finally, I have a friend that pulls mad tail that grew up in pleasantville, USA. Again, he doesn't take disrepect. But he also stays within the confines of the law.

The point? Don't try to be what you percieve as a 'bad boy' just don't be a pushover and stay true to yourself.