"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How do you become the alpha of a group?
- Thread starter ChrizZ
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
By doing exactly what I said above. Neg him and take control over the conversation. Earn his respect.ChrizZ said:how exactly can I beat him?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Infraction
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Mostly you are a member of a popular\semi-popular group. If the alpha will feel threatend he will atack back and most likely you will be laguhed of the other members of the gruop and you won't be invited to parties (if the current alpha is "strong" enough).
BUT, if you don't challange the alpha but just take control of the group and treat the alpha like a beta and show some leading skills you can take over the group.
REMBER:It's not easy and if you will do it stuipidtly you will lose you rank but if you will do it right than you are one step close to be a DJ.
Kev07
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