"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do you become popular!?

cesar

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how do you become from 'the guy at the back' of the class,to the most popular guy at college?...

what changes should i make?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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playa99

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read the high school bible, few posts on popularity there think you might like them, you gotta take the time to read them though, these things dont happen over nightread them all and dont slack off
 

War Against Betaism

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Read the bible, read a couple of books on how to be an alpha male. If you wnt videos, download David D's "On Being A Man" program and if you want a little more, get his "Deep Inner Game" program and watch The Count of Monte Cristo. Being popular is not all about knowing a lot of people; it's about people respecting you. There's this one guy that everyone knows at my school, but he's really really weird and people sometimes step on him.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Just be out going and social with everyone. Then, more people will know you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Carbine

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I got no fvcking idea mate lol... the only popular guys in my school are the ones walking around saying "I am gonna shank you blud" etc. etc.

I am happy to build my own circle of friends who are just like me. The key is to be popular within your OWN cricle of friends, and to be outgoing and sociable with everyone.

DON'T try to fit in where you don't belong, as it is fake, and not who you are. This is one time when you really DO be yourself, and up yours to anyone who doesn't like it.
 
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