"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how do you become popular!?

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cesar

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how do you become from 'the guy at the back' of the class,to the most popular guy at college?...

what changes should i make?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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read the high school bible, few posts on popularity there think you might like them, you gotta take the time to read them though, these things dont happen over nightread them all and dont slack off
 
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War Against Betaism

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Read the bible, read a couple of books on how to be an alpha male. If you wnt videos, download David D's "On Being A Man" program and if you want a little more, get his "Deep Inner Game" program and watch The Count of Monte Cristo. Being popular is not all about knowing a lot of people; it's about people respecting you. There's this one guy that everyone knows at my school, but he's really really weird and people sometimes step on him.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Just be out going and social with everyone. Then, more people will know you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I got no fvcking idea mate lol... the only popular guys in my school are the ones walking around saying "I am gonna shank you blud" etc. etc.

I am happy to build my own circle of friends who are just like me. The key is to be popular within your OWN cricle of friends, and to be outgoing and sociable with everyone.

DON'T try to fit in where you don't belong, as it is fake, and not who you are. This is one time when you really DO be yourself, and up yours to anyone who doesn't like it.
 
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