SoSuaveDude
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Optimize the hand you were dealt
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
how do you become considered a 'lover' in her eyes not a 'provider'?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
evan12
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that is correct , I was more provider material , I didnt send any sexual signal to girls , or looking in lust to women , I was considering this as good morals . I remember some girls was finding me challenge to make me desire them, from that I found ignoring women works some times .Burroughs said:So you're Indian huh
Either women find you hawt enough to fvck immediately because of lust or later as a provider or not at all.
You 'look' like a provider so to women you ARE a provider....if you can't change this 'look' enough to be hawt in their eyes you will be a provider for the rest of your life...
real truth.
I wasnt that masculine , and actually I was proud I am sensitive/nice guy , women there prefer to marry nice guys because the husband has almost all the power over his wife and his family so it is very risky for a woman to marry a jerk . when I arrived to Canada things become different ,men in middle east think men in the west is having sex all the time with all women.but that only correct with a few guys (the top 5% may be ) . but for the most it is not a case , at least in middle east 95% of men end up marring a young girl with morals and have sex with her whenever they want (no rape in inside marriage there ) .
here I started reading PUA materials to try to understand dating game , I was eager to it , but now I hate all the dating game , it is a lot of time consuming especially when you are serious and want to start a family . it is good only when you are not serious
I am from middle east bty