SoSuaveDude
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Optimize the hand you were dealt
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how do you become considered a 'lover' in her eyes not a 'provider'?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
evan12
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that is correct , I was more provider material , I didnt send any sexual signal to girls , or looking in lust to women , I was considering this as good morals . I remember some girls was finding me challenge to make me desire them, from that I found ignoring women works some times .Burroughs said:So you're Indian huh
Either women find you hawt enough to fvck immediately because of lust or later as a provider or not at all.
You 'look' like a provider so to women you ARE a provider....if you can't change this 'look' enough to be hawt in their eyes you will be a provider for the rest of your life...
real truth.
I wasnt that masculine , and actually I was proud I am sensitive/nice guy , women there prefer to marry nice guys because the husband has almost all the power over his wife and his family so it is very risky for a woman to marry a jerk . when I arrived to Canada things become different ,men in middle east think men in the west is having sex all the time with all women.but that only correct with a few guys (the top 5% may be ) . but for the most it is not a case , at least in middle east 95% of men end up marring a young girl with morals and have sex with her whenever they want (no rape in inside marriage there ) .
here I started reading PUA materials to try to understand dating game , I was eager to it , but now I hate all the dating game , it is a lot of time consuming especially when you are serious and want to start a family . it is good only when you are not serious
I am from middle east bty