SoSuaveDude
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Optimize the hand you were dealt
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
how do you become considered a 'lover' in her eyes not a 'provider'?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
evan12
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that is correct , I was more provider material , I didnt send any sexual signal to girls , or looking in lust to women , I was considering this as good morals . I remember some girls was finding me challenge to make me desire them, from that I found ignoring women works some times .Burroughs said:So you're Indian huh
Either women find you hawt enough to fvck immediately because of lust or later as a provider or not at all.
You 'look' like a provider so to women you ARE a provider....if you can't change this 'look' enough to be hawt in their eyes you will be a provider for the rest of your life...
real truth.
I wasnt that masculine , and actually I was proud I am sensitive/nice guy , women there prefer to marry nice guys because the husband has almost all the power over his wife and his family so it is very risky for a woman to marry a jerk . when I arrived to Canada things become different ,men in middle east think men in the west is having sex all the time with all women.but that only correct with a few guys (the top 5% may be ) . but for the most it is not a case , at least in middle east 95% of men end up marring a young girl with morals and have sex with her whenever they want (no rape in inside marriage there ) .
here I started reading PUA materials to try to understand dating game , I was eager to it , but now I hate all the dating game , it is a lot of time consuming especially when you are serious and want to start a family . it is good only when you are not serious
I am from middle east bty