"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you become competent at sex quickly if you are currently inexperienced?

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How do you become competent at sex quickly if you are currently inexperienced?

I'm currently 26. I tell people I'm 22, because I can pass for it (and reasons that should obvious based on what I've said so far.) She thought I was 22, and still thought my ineptitude was ****ed up. She has no patience for this, and is never seeing me again.

Is this kind of response typical? If so, how is it possible to learn, and to catch up quickly?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you become competent at baseball quickly if you are currently inexperienced?

Get a good coach and practice.

My second girl at 19 was a 24 year old single mom who showed me the ropes. Find a friendly coach and practice!
 
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That's pretty fvcked up lol. The only way to get better is practice I guess. You can find some sex tips on this forum though, try that.
 
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@evoken: Practice, that much is obvious, and trying tips, etc... The problem is with finding the partner to practice with without having to go through multiple partners that I leave horrified and put off, in what is then a very slow process.

Warrior74: re finding a friendly coach... what's the most efficient way of going about this?
 
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my first gf was a virgin. My second was a slvt. I learned more about sex in 4 months with #2 than 2 years with #1.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i dont understand you guys. u wana have sex and u need a partner for it.
isnt that so easy? u go grab a *****, pay her and let her do her work.
here in lebanon, there r *****es everywhere, and there r many super night clubs. prices list: 10$ and going up. a hundred or 2 for a hot russian babe.
some ppl will pay thousands and millions for a biatch.
well you go choose the perfect woman u wanna bed, pay her and let her do the work.
hahh.. and ive even heard some friends get good with some ladies that they were paid by their *****es to sleep with them.

sex.. its so goddamn easy. its everywhere. u dont see them, but theyre hiding somewhere near you. get some money and have sex.
 
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Experience = competence

Read some sex tips before you get going, maybe throw on a porn video and the both of you can try to emulate the pornstars (fun way to have sex and loosens the atmosphere).

As long as you're having fun with it and aren't nervous/self-conscious then you'll be fine. Have a couple shots of some hard alcohol right before you get going. Not enough to kill the wood but enough to loosen your mind up.
 
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1. Wear a condom for less sensitivity.

2. Become aware of your breathing.

3. If you feel like you're going to come, pull out and change position. While your doing this you should be able to compose yourself again before you stick it back in.

4. Don't go so fast, slow it down a little.
 
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@evoken: Practice, that much is obvious, and trying tips, etc... The problem is with finding the partner to practice with without having to go through multiple partners that I leave horrified and put off, in what is then a very slow process.
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I think you just had bad luck with this one. Seems like a wh0re who is only interested in having herself pleased and not worrying about you, fvck that sh1t. You could perhaps find a girlfriend and use her as practice. I doubt if you've officially made a girl your girlfriend she'd leave you after finding out you're inexperienced haha. I wouldn't do that personally but hey it's up to you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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evoken said:
I think you just had bad luck with this one. Seems like a wh0re who is only interested in having herself pleased and not worrying about you, fvck that sh1t. You could perhaps find a girlfriend and use her as practice. I doubt if you've officially made a girl your girlfriend she'd leave you after finding out you're inexperienced haha. I wouldn't do that personally but hey it's up to you.
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When is a girl "officially your girlfriend"? I mean, what do I need to bring about for this to be the scenerio?
 
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I think if she loves you she won't mind that you don't know what you're doing. I think sex for women is very emotional and they care mostly about being held and kissed and told that they're pretty. I'm a virgin at 36, and I don't even want sex really, I want love.
 
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