"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How Do You Be ****y?

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Question: How Do You Be ****y?


I see some people who look at their reflection all the time, walk with a swagger and get the chicks.

How Do I have that?

It seems like the more ****ier you are the more chicks you get.

How Do I Become Confident with the way i look? How do i think of myself very highly? How do i think i'm really good looking?


(Background - I'm 6'4 200lbs, workout, nicely toned body, q.nice face 6/7)

Cheers boyos,


Donny O
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Confidensce is the answer and looking at the POSITIVE aspects of you and dismiss the negatives. Never put yourself down, always put yourself up etc... But remember you can get TOO ****y but yes ****yness works alot for me.

I think you need to work on your selfimage mate :) One thing that breeds confidensce is lays I've found out.
 

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emphasize what you like about yourself. what you know you can be proud of yourself. make it come out naturally. just be comfortable with yourself.

when you see chicks get so over themselves, add a little humor and then you've got the formula.
 

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"Confidensce is the answer and looking at the POSITIVE aspects of you and dismiss the negatives. Never put yourself down, always put yourself up etc... But remember you can get TOO ****y but yes ****yness works alot for me. I think you need to work on your selfimage mate One thing that breeds confidensce is lays I've found out."


Yea, over-****iness is what i want! Cause then i can regulate it and tone it up or down depending on the ho. What i'm looking for in a reply is specific things that i can do.

I never really put myself down (like 'your so stupid' etc.), just sometimes when i look in the mirror i think 'you ain't that good looking' which can onyl be bad for my confidence. I 'm not even ugly, i get IOI's all the time. I don't know what makes me think this as i thought i was v.v.good looking up untill i was about 13.

I am confident, much more than i was this time last year for sure, but i'm a bit of a perfectionist in all aspects of my life, so how i become purely ****y?
 

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Yes I'm a perfectionist myself but seriously when you see yourself in the mirror be like

DAYM I'm good looking
Damn what beautiful eyes I have
OOo those muscles turn me on
Aaaa they want me

stuff like that, selfaffirmations ALL THE WAY!!!! Never think yourself is ugly!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How to be ****y? Pull out your **** in front of a crowd and start waving it in the air like you just don't care. Now that's ****y!
 

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The way I used to do it at first when I was still new to it, was to just use C&F when asked a personal question.

For example,

her: what do you do for a living
me: i'm a male escort
her: haha no really what do you do
me: yes really, by the way, you owe me $100 for this date


her: do you have any brothers or sisters?
you: i have an identical twin
her: really??
you: yes, he's in the men's room atm. I always bring him in case the date turns out to be boring, so that he can replace me and I can go do something more fun.
her: blah blah
then get up and say "excuse me for a second I gotta go to the bathroom", wink, smile, go to the bathroom, come back.


her: i didn't catch your name
you: Ben Affleck (then point at the nearest fattest, baldest guy and say "and that's my best buddy in the whole world, matt damon"
her: funny, you don't look like ben affleck
you: well this is what i look like before they put all that ugly make-up on me


etc etc. basically anything that teases her, is appropriate, and makes you look like you think highly of yourself in a comedic sort of way. good C&F should always get you a laugh, a punch in the arm, a wide eyed "is this guy crazy?" expression etc. if you start getting kicked in the nuts, you might wanna tone it down a bit tho...
 

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Getting laid by different women or women hotter than what I've had before is the only thing that seems to boost my confidence. Sticking around with the same girls just keeps your ego at a stalemate, and doesn't go up or down.
 

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Be like me;P

fuzzx HAHA!! LOL!! ROTFL!
That's the funniest thing I've ever heard!
LOL!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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****y is when you wake up in the morning and you dont give a F*K what happens.... That is the true ****y confidence.
 

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Originally posted by dingo23
****y is when you wake up in the morning and you dont give a F*K what happens.... That is the true ****y confidence.
Nice...
 

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i do believe ****iness can get you the girls.
but i think everyone needs to realize where to draw that thin line.

overcockiness eventually leads t obeing a jerk and possibly a **** where you start putting ppl down.
 

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being ****y is not about thinking you are anything... it's about KNOWING that you are everything...Know you will get the girl, know you will beat up anybody who tries to step to you... Know!
 

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donny,

You might want to check out www.doubleyourdating.com. It's a website by David DeAngelo and the core of what he teaches is how to be ****y and funny in order to attract women. He has several different products and the two that seemed to be the best were his e-book and "advanced series" cd set. They teach you how to be ****y and funny and they have a lot of exercises that you could use to get your self-image where you want it to be. I've used tons of different products in trying to get this area of my life handled and DeAngelo's are the best that I've found.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Trust me, you dont want to be overcock-ied... because you'll just become a bitter loser who doesnt get anywhere..

No matter what you hear, not all girls are stupid bimbos with no personality that go for ****y "alpha males".... most of the girls i know are turned off by over ****iness and self centerness of the guy..



Now, i am ****y as hell at my job, just cause i like to have fun..

for example...

I walk to the door, the girl pulls it closed and holds it there, not letting me in. I turn around and wiggle my ass on the glass door in front of her.. She let's me in, and says "Well that was nice" .. and i reply "You can pay me later"..


Sometimes ****y is money, sometimes ****y turns girls cold. YOu gotta know which girls, and what time..
 
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