"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how do you be a challenge?

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big weezy

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how do you be a chalenge to a HB especially really hot one?

i understand you ask her out get digits if she complies and agrees to a time to meet etc etc.. how do you keep her interested by being a challenge as in what do you do?

not being too available i understand is one way like only offering 2 days a week you are free and she has to comply or you don't meet. also dont show keeness or desperation if she can't make those times just touch base the week after rather than bend your schedule around her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You cant be a challange to a ho who gets ****tons of attention couse of looks on a daily basis. You just cant. Deal with it. If she likes you she likes you.
 
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They arent any different because of their hotness other than having more options, the question is are YOU going to be different? Are you going to cancel plans and bend over backwards to meet her, are you going to walk on eggshells and overanalyze everything you say to her? Etc.

But as braindamage says attraction is attraction, you just put yourself out there see what happens and keep your cool.
 
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