"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do you be a challenge?

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big weezy

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how do you be a chalenge to a HB especially really hot one?

i understand you ask her out get digits if she complies and agrees to a time to meet etc etc.. how do you keep her interested by being a challenge as in what do you do?

not being too available i understand is one way like only offering 2 days a week you are free and she has to comply or you don't meet. also dont show keeness or desperation if she can't make those times just touch base the week after rather than bend your schedule around her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You cant be a challange to a ho who gets ****tons of attention couse of looks on a daily basis. You just cant. Deal with it. If she likes you she likes you.
 
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They arent any different because of their hotness other than having more options, the question is are YOU going to be different? Are you going to cancel plans and bend over backwards to meet her, are you going to walk on eggshells and overanalyze everything you say to her? Etc.

But as braindamage says attraction is attraction, you just put yourself out there see what happens and keep your cool.
 
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