"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you avoid unhealthy food?

Carmina Gadelica

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Access. Make sure you don’t have access to

Make sure your house is full of healthy foods and drinks.

Then will power. to stay regimented with your diet.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I mostly try to eat real, whole foods, but my meal planning and grocery shopping could be better. Sometimes I buy junkfood or fastfood, but I will at least try to detox afterwards. The effect of feeling healthy is motivating, and the next time I eat poorly I can always feel the consequences.

I basically eat a paleo diet (meat, fruit, some veggies) with dairy. Protein powder, supplements etc.

I don't typically eat much breads or nuts, legumes, frozen or processed foods.
 
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