"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how do you avoid personal questions?

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my gr always asks me personal questions and it drives me nuts. i don't like answering these at all. and it seems that every time a answer them she shuts up as if she didn't like what i said. for that reason i don't like answering her questions because she never seems like she's ready for it even though she says she is.

questions include

"am i gaining weight"?
"am i the prettiest girl you've ever dated?"
"am i a cry baby?"
"do i look skinnier to you?"
"do you think (insert friend name here) is cute?"
" would you do (insert friend name here)?"
"wats your favorite body part on me?"

and today she asks me "what's your idea of the perfect woman?"

am thinking it's kinda redundant because if she wasn't perfect( or at least good enough) i wouldn't be with her. so i told her i don't have a blueprint per say, but i know exactly what i don't want in a woman. again, she clams up and says nothing's wrong. when i could tell something i said bothered her.

so how do you deal with these types of questions exactly?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Raikojo17 said:
..so how do you deal with these types of questions exactly?
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Date thin, attractive, confident women.
 
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You tell her that if she stops acting like a little girl, you just might buy her some ice cream... Double scoop if she's lucky.
 
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Raikojo17 said:
"am i gaining weight"?
WHy are you asking me, dont you have a scale at home?

"am i the prettiest girl you've ever dated?"
No, I dont even think your in the top 10.
Your not even the prettiest girl that Im dating RIGHT NOW.

"am i a cry baby?"
Yea, But I still love you.

"do i look skinnier to you?"
what the ****

"do you think (insert friend name here) is cute?"
Yea, shes really cute.

" would you do (insert friend name here)?"
Yea, shes really cute.

"wats your favorite body part on me?"
Definately that big ass of yours

and today she asks me "what's your idea of the perfect woman?"
Someone who doesnt bother me with stupid questions
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I dunno. This is just what id say.
 
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