"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do you avoid personal questions?

Raikojo17

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my gr always asks me personal questions and it drives me nuts. i don't like answering these at all. and it seems that every time a answer them she shuts up as if she didn't like what i said. for that reason i don't like answering her questions because she never seems like she's ready for it even though she says she is.

questions include

"am i gaining weight"?
"am i the prettiest girl you've ever dated?"
"am i a cry baby?"
"do i look skinnier to you?"
"do you think (insert friend name here) is cute?"
" would you do (insert friend name here)?"
"wats your favorite body part on me?"

and today she asks me "what's your idea of the perfect woman?"

am thinking it's kinda redundant because if she wasn't perfect( or at least good enough) i wouldn't be with her. so i told her i don't have a blueprint per say, but i know exactly what i don't want in a woman. again, she clams up and says nothing's wrong. when i could tell something i said bothered her.

so how do you deal with these types of questions exactly?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Raikojo17 said:
..so how do you deal with these types of questions exactly?
Date thin, attractive, confident women.
 

cNfny

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You tell her that if she stops acting like a little girl, you just might buy her some ice cream... Double scoop if she's lucky.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
"am i gaining weight"?
WHy are you asking me, dont you have a scale at home?

"am i the prettiest girl you've ever dated?"
No, I dont even think your in the top 10.
Your not even the prettiest girl that Im dating RIGHT NOW.

"am i a cry baby?"
Yea, But I still love you.

"do i look skinnier to you?"
what the ****

"do you think (insert friend name here) is cute?"
Yea, shes really cute.

" would you do (insert friend name here)?"
Yea, shes really cute.

"wats your favorite body part on me?"
Definately that big ass of yours

and today she asks me "what's your idea of the perfect woman?"
Someone who doesnt bother me with stupid questions
I dunno. This is just what id say.
 
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