How do YOU attract girls with boyfriends?

[DJ24SEVEN]

1. How do you gain the interest of a girl with a boyfriend.

2. Have you successfully made a female leave her boyfriend for you?

3. Is it better to play it strong (show high levels of interest in first few dates) or take it slow?

I need some tips. Even DJs need help sometime!

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

I never understood why someone would WANT someone who had a SO. Is it just the wanting-what-you-can't-have thing? Is it the challenge?

Aren't there plenty of single girls out there, that you don't have to go after those who are taken? I mean, I understand it's different if the girl is showing you interest despite having a BF, but why would you make it a point of trying to GAIN the interest of a girl who's taken?

Personally I think it's a ****ty thing to do. It's bad karma ****ing up someone else's relationship. And if she's so untrustworthy that she'd cheat on/leave her man for you, what do YOU want with her? Don't you think she'd do the same thing TO you for someone else?

It just seems silly to me, but I don't know... maybe that's because I'm not a guy.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Alright, enough with the lecture on morality, show the man how to get some taken a$$!!!!

I don't disagree with Malibu's post.

 

[DJ24SEVEN]

I don't think it's wrong to "steal" someone's girlfriend. I'm not really stealing. I'm starting off as a friend, and if she sees more in me than she does her boyfriend...am I wrong for that?

I just wanna know is it good to show high interest level during the first few dates.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

I figure if I could steal a girl away from a guy, someone could steal her away from me since I'm not the ultimate DJ.

In the end it's not worth it to have to deal with an unfaithful chick and a pissed off ex boyfriend.

 

[DJ24SEVEN]

Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I never understood why someone would WANT someone who had a SO. Is it just the wanting-what-you-can't-have thing? Is it the challenge?

Aren't there plenty of single girls out there, that you don't have to go after those who are taken? I mean, I understand it's different if the girl is showing you interest despite having a BF, but why would you make it a point of trying to GAIN the interest of a girl who's taken?

Personally I think it's a ****ty thing to do. It's bad karma ****ing up someone else's relationship. And if she's so untrustworthy that she'd cheat on/leave her man for you, what do YOU want with her? Don't you think she'd do the same thing TO you for someone else?

It just seems silly to me, but I don't know... maybe that's because I'm not a guy.

If you're not married or engaged, you're fair game.

Some girls make it seem like they're off limits just because they have a man. I'm the type of guy that shows interest to any female, regardless of her relationship status (again, i don't hit on married or engaged women).

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Originally posted by DJ24SEVEN


I just wanna know is it good to show high interest level during the first few dates.

Dates? You are dating her, but you haven't gotten her to dump him? Are you the only one who's considering a date? If you are planning on dating, why would you want to "date" her? Dating, specially somebody who's sleeping with someone else, is for chumps, for AFC's.

How about you don't put too much emphazis on her. Get together with her. If you date her, she will see you as the nice friend who's her emotional tampon. Let her show high interest in your initial encounters.

Do you even know how much she's into her BF? I do agree with you, if you are not engaged in a serious LTR, or married, everything is fair game. Usually girls will dump guys as soon as someone else better shows up. Nothing wrong with that. That is why you must go out there and work on yourself, to attract the kind of women you want.

 

[Jay-X]

i think it's a lame thing to steal someone's girlfriend... i'd f0ck her and quit it there... don't break other people's relationships, for if they are not don juans they will suffer a lot more than u would

 

[DJ24SEVEN]

Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
I figure if I could steal a girl away from a guy, someone could steal her away from me since I'm not the ultimate DJ.

In the end it's not worth it to have to deal with an unfaithful chick and a pissed off ex boyfriend.

So what's with all those BS lines this website puts out such as:

Her: I have a boyfriend
You: I asked YOU out, not him.

 

[DJ24SEVEN]

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Dates? You are dating her, but you haven't gotten her to dump him? Are you the only one who's considering a date? If you are planning on dating, why would you want to "date" her? Dating, specially somebody who's sleeping with someone else, is for chumps, for AFC's.

How about you don't put too much emphazis on her. Get together with her. If you date her, she will see you as the nice friend who's her emotional tampon. Let her show high interest in your initial encounters.

Do you even know how much she's into her BF?

I'm not dating her...yet.

EDIT: I want to maybe spend an hour or two with her...show what I have to offer...and let her make the decision. I'll leave our relationship open...

 

[skinnydart]

Her: I have a boyfriend
You: Does that mean you don't want a better one?

 

[dookie]

There is nothing wrong with creating more options for her I am planning on doing the same. My problem is that I'm not sure if I should project how I am with my good friends or like a mix of her past relationships. Should I treat her same as the other girls in the department, give her less attention? So far I have used scarsasm, and ****y/funny and strong eye contact and open body language. But I think I might need to do something else to make her interest level higher. I guess atm I am projecting a medium interest level atm. So... I would also like to know if there are any tips on this matter.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Originally posted by DJ24SEVEN
So what's with all those BS lines this website puts out such as:

Her: I have a boyfriend
You: I asked YOU out, not him.

Some guys just want a girl and don't care about the reprecussions of getting her. I could definitely be a lameass and break couples up to date the girl, but you don't get much respect for doing that.

A lot of girls will cheat on their boyfriends with you. The thing is they're not LTR material due to the fact they have no qualms about boning any guy who isn't a fat beast and has some game when they approach

 

[SheepSter]

Originally posted by DJ24SEVEN
1. How do you gain the interest of a girl with a boyfriend.

2. Have you successfully made a female leave her boyfriend for you?

3. Is it better to play it strong (show high levels of interest in first few dates) or take it slow?

I need some tips. Even DJs need help sometime!

*Interest is gained the same way as with any other HB.
*If she is alone and tells you she has a BF, simply ignore that, don't comment on it. (if she tells you very quickly in the convo it's a sh|t test, still ignore it and stay cool)
*If she is with her BF...read on.

Ok normally I would not go for a HB with a BF, not because of the sacred relationship they have, they don't actually since there's no ring on her finger. But because I'm making it harder for myself while there are enough to go around.

But one time I could not help myself (very nice HB9). She stood at the bar with a guy (her BF). I waited untill she went to the bathroom and bought myself a drink next to the guy. I asked him if he saw some fine ladies in the bar tonight. He told me he saw some but that he has the finest (he was correct). Some small talk and when the HB came back I already knew her name and where they came from. I introduced myself to her, first saying her name. She was amazed, and I asked her if she was from the city her boyfriend told me. Ofcourse she was...more amazed. I told her that her guy, who was standing next too us, was lucky and walked off. I walked accros the room and opened another girl (she could see). Started dancing with the new girl. 15 min later the HB9 approaches me and asked where I was from. I told her and asked her to give me her number. She did. 2 days later I called her, talked 5 min and asked if she had any dance skills. Then invited her to a party the next night.

Notice that I did not date her but invited her to come along to a party. I'm not needy cause wether she comes or not, I will have a great time. She came to the party and I closed her in the best way possible. But still single women are a lot easier.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Originally posted by DJ24SEVEN
So what's with all those BS lines this website puts out such as:

Her: I have a boyfriend
You: I asked YOU out, not him.

Sometimes a girl will lie about having a bf to get the guy to stop bothering her... but after he keeps at it a bit, she'll realize he's not so bad and consider him after all.

I think cheating is wrong, period. But if she is showing interest, then I guess it's not technicallly "stealing" (since she wants to be "stolen")... What I was saying before was that if she ISN'T showing interest in the first place... why waste your time on her? Why not go for someone who DOESN'T have a bf.

 

[BGMan]

Use your gut feeling. If you feel that the girl likes you -- really DOES like you, not just being friendly -- then go for it.

BGMan

 

[Life-Trainee]

Maybe it's because i live in a big city with everyone in close proximity of each other but in my experience much of the good girls are taken. Heck, even couple of my "gargoyle looking" UGs female friends have AFC BFs. I don't consider it immoral "stealing" other's relationship parthners. If she leaves her man for you then you must be the better man.

 

[BGMan]

Agreed. I forgot to point out that there is nothing "sacred" about a BF/GF relationship.

Think about it.

1) If a girl has a BF, but likes you, she's probably not intending to marry the guy ... unless she's a headcase; in which case, you had better not plan on marrying her!

2) Engaged or married girls are strictly off limits. Sometimes they'll flirt with you or act interested like single girls would. Be a man and just say no!

3) A girl with a BF who becomes her fiancee only happens because the girl wants it. In other words, girls who are serious about their BFs will not date other guys.

If a girl has a BF but never tells me, and otherwise acts like a single girl, I don't worry about it. In fact, I #-closed just such a girl today. I overheard her mentioning her BF to somebody else, but so far I have never been able to get her to talk about her BF. She'll mention that she spent the weekend cleaning the house, or talk about her married sister and parents coming to visit for Thanksgiving... no BF. (In my case, in my Operation Anaconda, it's one down, several more to go!)

BGMan

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by ShizamDaMan
I figure if I could steal a girl away from a guy, someone could steal her away from me since I'm not the ultimate DJ.

In the end it's not worth it to have to deal with an unfaithful chick and a pissed off ex boyfriend.

thats great if someone "steals" her off u cause u got other women who can immediately replace her, and damn if her bf was mad at u try to talk first in a civil manner, if it ends up in a fight make sure to leave him in pain, even if u lose.

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by Jay-X
i think it's a lame thing to steal someone's girlfriend... i'd f0ck her and quit it there... don't break other people's relationships, for if they are not don juans they will suffer a lot more than u would

exactly, so someone stealing her off u wud be no problem,
see what i mean ?