"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do you attain Social Status?

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Master Don Juan
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but I think what offends many people here is when it sounds like you're saying that you must first attain social status before you can do anything; seduce, date, etc
You can be a pickup artist and learn techniques to meet women but that would just be artificial. What I want is to learn to authentically lhave status or value.

In a lot of these posts I'm interchanging social status with status and that is where the confusion seems to be coming from.

So my definitions are:

status = value

social status = popularity

So yes then, I want to learn to be socially valuable. :up:


Much better to just use the things that bring social status to pull honeys. Then you earn the status and it follows you everywhere that people know you. Again (I'm repeating myself hoping that someone will get it) social status doesn't do anything on it's own, it's just indicative of people knowing all of the things you can do.....
you made a great point with that statement. You have to earn the status. A lot of people on this thread have offered great advice about earning status, but you haven't yet.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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