"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How do you attain Social Status?

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Master Don Juan
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but I think what offends many people here is when it sounds like you're saying that you must first attain social status before you can do anything; seduce, date, etc
You can be a pickup artist and learn techniques to meet women but that would just be artificial. What I want is to learn to authentically lhave status or value.

In a lot of these posts I'm interchanging social status with status and that is where the confusion seems to be coming from.

So my definitions are:

status = value

social status = popularity

So yes then, I want to learn to be socially valuable. :up:


Much better to just use the things that bring social status to pull honeys. Then you earn the status and it follows you everywhere that people know you. Again (I'm repeating myself hoping that someone will get it) social status doesn't do anything on it's own, it's just indicative of people knowing all of the things you can do.....
you made a great point with that statement. You have to earn the status. A lot of people on this thread have offered great advice about earning status, but you haven't yet.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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