"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you ask if she's single?

ScrewIt

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Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust


Remember my eariler post about propositioning her with the better deal. no woman wants a BF when she thinks she can have someone better. Mark my words IF SHE SEES YOU AS THE BETTER DEAL SHE WILL NOT LET YOU SLIP AWAY FROM HER.
It's funny how you brought that up. Cause i believe a lot of guys and girls have a bf/gf just for filler....you know take what they can get. if something better comes along, they will go for it. Whether or not they end up regretting it if that new prospect doesnt workout, well it was their choice to begin with
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Never ask a chick if shes single, you think guys that actually bang these b!tches ask if some other bozo is nailing her? If shes above a 5 there is always some douche in the background anyway.

Never ask and more importantly never CARE if shes single. If youve got better game than the guy thats currently boning her he will no longer exist anyway and soon will be shelved by her once she secures you.(or thinks shes secured you)
lol no kidding ****ing douches
 

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Definately dont come out and just ask..sometimes it embarassing.. just flirt with her and say something like.. your boyfriend must be lucky to have sucha cutie like you.. She's either going to say "Oh, thanks" or "I dont have one"
 

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Originally posted by XtremeRacingDiva
Definately dont come out and just ask..sometimes it embarassing.. just flirt with her and say something like.. your boyfriend must be lucky to have sucha cutie like you.. She's either going to say "Oh, thanks" or "I dont have one"
I use this formula a lot too; never had a negative reaction. It's funny how well it flows into the conversation yet they always take special notice of it.
 

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Originally posted by Zonder
I use this formula a lot too; never had a negative reaction. It's funny how well it flows into the conversation yet they always take special notice of it.
girls use this a lot actually. When used on a girl, im betting the chances of her lying about her bf is going to be high.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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