"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you approach girls for fun not dating

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So you see a cute girl irl not a club scenario maybe through work you occasionaly meet her. You want to smash her NOT date her.

But she looks hot decent women not some slut type. Youd think she probably only puts out her bf etc and dates?

So how would you approach her for sex?

its almost impossible to have sex with these types without going on some dates?

Its hard to find women for sex without dating them first?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wifehunter

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Hey caveman, just hit her over the head, and drag her back to your cave!!! Lol!!! I kid l kid!!!
 

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For the first few dates, including when you first get laid, almost no woman wants much more than the next date anyway. Keep the first couple of meets fun and you'll have no problems.

What's the problem?

If you can't handle that, just hire a wh*re and be done with it.
 
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lol but when on holiday for example I met this girl at hostel, we hung out then at night we made out and found and empty room had a bit sex but mostly oral then I bust on her face lol.

and another girl on holiday I met at hotel 17 year old hotty and we went to beach I tag along with her friend and friend bf, they start to make out so, we did also, then we had sex on beach at night lol.

So it only happens on holiday?

At home girls moreso want to date a bit first? Its rare to find a girl except a complete trashy slut that will go fullway without any dates? Not many guys ever have sex without dating?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devilkingx2

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Tinder or Craigslist personals or partys/bars/clubs
 

parkthebus

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Yeah mate, unless she's on a dating app and has settings to looking for something casual or along those lines, you'll have to go somewhere with her first. You could request sex, but will most likely be told no.
 
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Yeah mate, unless she's on a dating app and has settings to looking for something casual or along those lines, you'll have to go somewhere with her first. You could request sex, but will most likely be told no.
a date or 2? maybe more
 

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Talk to her for a bit and invite her to come check out something back at your place. Keep escalating once they're there. Most will say no to going to your place but it's a numbers game so just keep trying.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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