"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you approach girls for fun not dating

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So you see a cute girl irl not a club scenario maybe through work you occasionaly meet her. You want to smash her NOT date her.

But she looks hot decent women not some slut type. Youd think she probably only puts out her bf etc and dates?

So how would you approach her for sex?

its almost impossible to have sex with these types without going on some dates?

Its hard to find women for sex without dating them first?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wifehunter

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Hey caveman, just hit her over the head, and drag her back to your cave!!! Lol!!! I kid l kid!!!
 

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For the first few dates, including when you first get laid, almost no woman wants much more than the next date anyway. Keep the first couple of meets fun and you'll have no problems.

What's the problem?

If you can't handle that, just hire a wh*re and be done with it.
 
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lol but when on holiday for example I met this girl at hostel, we hung out then at night we made out and found and empty room had a bit sex but mostly oral then I bust on her face lol.

and another girl on holiday I met at hotel 17 year old hotty and we went to beach I tag along with her friend and friend bf, they start to make out so, we did also, then we had sex on beach at night lol.

So it only happens on holiday?

At home girls moreso want to date a bit first? Its rare to find a girl except a complete trashy slut that will go fullway without any dates? Not many guys ever have sex without dating?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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devilkingx2

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Tinder or Craigslist personals or partys/bars/clubs
 

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Yeah mate, unless she's on a dating app and has settings to looking for something casual or along those lines, you'll have to go somewhere with her first. You could request sex, but will most likely be told no.
 
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Yeah mate, unless she's on a dating app and has settings to looking for something casual or along those lines, you'll have to go somewhere with her first. You could request sex, but will most likely be told no.
a date or 2? maybe more
 

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Talk to her for a bit and invite her to come check out something back at your place. Keep escalating once they're there. Most will say no to going to your place but it's a numbers game so just keep trying.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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