"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do women typically test your frame?

Building_and_Loan

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Been seeing this girl for a while now and things have gone really well. We're still early on, so we haven't had any real disagreements or fights yet which any relationship will inevitably have.

I currently am in a great position since I control the frame, but I know the time will soon come when she'll try to test it to see if she can respect me.

In your experience, how have girls tried to test your frame, and how did you do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Billtx49

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In your experience, how have girls tried to test your frame, and how did you do?
Women’s tactics vary, they will use their own personal methods to see if you’re a rock or a marshmallow. Always be the rock and you won’t have to worry about it…
 

The Diver

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so we haven't had any real disagreements or fights yet which any relationship will inevitably have.
A side note to your post:
When I am just starting dating a girl, I make it clear to her, that my life as for now is sweet, and I like to keep it that way, and the way to chase me away is to start a silly drams.

An argument or exchange of opinions is not considering a Fight in my book, as long as it is done respectfully, and sometimes we agree not to agree and move on.

I can't remember the last time I had a "Fight" with any of my dates.

I guess as you get older, you have less patience for BS's and silly dramas.
 
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