"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do women typically test your frame?

Building_and_Loan

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Been seeing this girl for a while now and things have gone really well. We're still early on, so we haven't had any real disagreements or fights yet which any relationship will inevitably have.

I currently am in a great position since I control the frame, but I know the time will soon come when she'll try to test it to see if she can respect me.

In your experience, how have girls tried to test your frame, and how did you do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Billtx49

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In your experience, how have girls tried to test your frame, and how did you do?
Women’s tactics vary, they will use their own personal methods to see if you’re a rock or a marshmallow. Always be the rock and you won’t have to worry about it…
 

The Diver

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so we haven't had any real disagreements or fights yet which any relationship will inevitably have.
A side note to your post:
When I am just starting dating a girl, I make it clear to her, that my life as for now is sweet, and I like to keep it that way, and the way to chase me away is to start a silly drams.

An argument or exchange of opinions is not considering a Fight in my book, as long as it is done respectfully, and sometimes we agree not to agree and move on.

I can't remember the last time I had a "Fight" with any of my dates.

I guess as you get older, you have less patience for BS's and silly dramas.
 
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