Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do women typically test your frame?

Building_and_Loan

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Been seeing this girl for a while now and things have gone really well. We're still early on, so we haven't had any real disagreements or fights yet which any relationship will inevitably have.

I currently am in a great position since I control the frame, but I know the time will soon come when she'll try to test it to see if she can respect me.

In your experience, how have girls tried to test your frame, and how did you do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Billtx49

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In your experience, how have girls tried to test your frame, and how did you do?
Women’s tactics vary, they will use their own personal methods to see if you’re a rock or a marshmallow. Always be the rock and you won’t have to worry about it…
 

The Diver

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so we haven't had any real disagreements or fights yet which any relationship will inevitably have.
A side note to your post:
When I am just starting dating a girl, I make it clear to her, that my life as for now is sweet, and I like to keep it that way, and the way to chase me away is to start a silly drams.

An argument or exchange of opinions is not considering a Fight in my book, as long as it is done respectfully, and sometimes we agree not to agree and move on.

I can't remember the last time I had a "Fight" with any of my dates.

I guess as you get older, you have less patience for BS's and silly dramas.
 
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