You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
GeoMan said:What behaviors change as the relationship progresses that causes women to slowly become "bored" or loose feelings? How do you keep a relationship from becoming stale?
__________GeoMan said:What behaviors change as the relationship progresses that causes women to slowly become "bored" or loose feelings? How do you keep a relationship from becoming stale?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That goes for anyone. Poon applies anything negative that is basically a human trait to women because he offers them nothing knowing they don't want him.Poon King said:A woman's FEELINGS are directly tied to what a man can do for her. In other words.. how a man can improve her life or fill a void.
Women lose interest once a man stops being useful OR once her needs change and she no longer needs what she once did.
For instance..a woman trapped in the jungle will fall in love with Tarzan because he can provide protection and security. But once someone from the modern world finds her and takes her back to a city where you need MONEY to survive.. Tarzan loses his appeal pretty fast.
Women don't care who you are. They care what you can do for THEM. Women view men as a utility.
Tell us.thatfeel said:Regardless of what poon king does or does not offer I think he would agree the basis for creating attraction to get fvcked is by displaying a high perceived value, whether or not you actually are high value or not.
I think it stands for Keyboard Jockey.thatfeel said:Wtf is a kj
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This makes so much sence. Explains alot in my eyes.Poon King said:A woman's FEELINGS are directly tied to what a man can do for her. In other words.. how a man can improve her life or fill a void.
Women lose interest once a man stops being useful OR once her needs change and she no longer needs what she once did.
For instance..a woman trapped in the jungle will fall in love with Tarzan because he can provide protection and security. But once someone from the modern world finds her and takes her back to a city where you need MONEY to survive.. Tarzan loses his appeal pretty fast.
Women don't care who you are. They care what you can do for THEM. Women view men as a utility.
You're obviously an old bitter woman.weaponx said:That goes for anyone. Poon applies anything negative that is basically a human trait to women because he offers them nothing knowing they don't want him.
I guess "Poon King" surrounds himself with "quality" that does nothing for him. Because after all "Poon King" offers so much to others and they should be grateful.
Humans should just stay with those who offer them nothing. Great advice.
Do the "DJs" of So Suave make it a habit to chase after those who do nothing for them? If so. That's one of their main problems.
Why bother improving yourselves? After all you just might be showing others you have something to offer.
Poon King said:You're obviously an old bitter woman.
This post reeks of female entitlement. You sound like a woman who got f*cked and chucked one time too many. Then you found SoSuave as a chance to learn more about the male psyche.. to better understand WHY no man would commit to you and WHY all men used you exclusively for sex.
Upon reading the harsh truths presented on this website you were shocked and appalled at the lack of female worship. You expected men to talk about their dreams of one day being part of an amazing power couple with a SMART and highly educated alpha female (like you) whom men drool over because she is so educated and so successful, and her car is so nice. You expected men to say they avoid relationships with such women because they are "intimidated" by her confidence and success.. BUT they dream of being with her. They dream of being with women like Oprah.. smart, rich, successful, etc.
You were disappointed to learn that men don't give two sh!ts about a woman's fancy car, or fancy education or job title. What men were more interested in is f*cking young hotties and MAYBE settling down with a nice submissive sex slave who is 5 to 10 years younger than him.
The truth hurts don't it? Cry more. :crackup:
Yep.. lil' retarded ginger girlie girl temper tantrums and wishful thinking again. Sad stuff.weaponx said:MGTOW's think anyone who isn't as beta and pathetic as they are to hold their hands in agreement like little boys are "women". It's their "easy dismissal" nonsense on being called out on their KJ nonsense. You fear women having power over you in a relationship yet KJ about what an "alpha Poon King" you are online to other men? LMFAO.
You crack me up son.
You aren't getting jack squat. Anyone who isn't a beta pretending to be alpha while whining about women constantly giving them power over themselves while acting like they aren't sees you as pure delusional comedy.
You are a loner. A foreveralone angry man-child. You put women on a high pedestal ranting in every post or thread you make how they are some "enemy" that you are at "war" with....online no less.
Amazing for someone who fantasizes himself as a mythical "slayer" you sure seem to make it a habit of anyone disagreeing with your clown act is a "woman". I guess the keyboard "slayer" only has problems with "women" online?
You embarrass yourself for my amusement.
I mean seriously son. If you want to show and prove why don't you invite out the online alphas where you live to go out and sarge with you...You know. Show and prove to all of us.
Scared?
Poon King said:Yep.. lil' retarded ginger girlie girl temper tantrums and wishful thinking again. Sad stuff.
You are 100% wrong and it seems that you are just furious because of that. :crackup:
You suffer a major public humiliation with every response you make.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.