You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
GeoMan said:What behaviors change as the relationship progresses that causes women to slowly become "bored" or loose feelings? How do you keep a relationship from becoming stale?
__________GeoMan said:What behaviors change as the relationship progresses that causes women to slowly become "bored" or loose feelings? How do you keep a relationship from becoming stale?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That goes for anyone. Poon applies anything negative that is basically a human trait to women because he offers them nothing knowing they don't want him.Poon King said:A woman's FEELINGS are directly tied to what a man can do for her. In other words.. how a man can improve her life or fill a void.
Women lose interest once a man stops being useful OR once her needs change and she no longer needs what she once did.
For instance..a woman trapped in the jungle will fall in love with Tarzan because he can provide protection and security. But once someone from the modern world finds her and takes her back to a city where you need MONEY to survive.. Tarzan loses his appeal pretty fast.
Women don't care who you are. They care what you can do for THEM. Women view men as a utility.
Tell us.thatfeel said:Regardless of what poon king does or does not offer I think he would agree the basis for creating attraction to get fvcked is by displaying a high perceived value, whether or not you actually are high value or not.
I think it stands for Keyboard Jockey.thatfeel said:Wtf is a kj
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This makes so much sence. Explains alot in my eyes.Poon King said:A woman's FEELINGS are directly tied to what a man can do for her. In other words.. how a man can improve her life or fill a void.
Women lose interest once a man stops being useful OR once her needs change and she no longer needs what she once did.
For instance..a woman trapped in the jungle will fall in love with Tarzan because he can provide protection and security. But once someone from the modern world finds her and takes her back to a city where you need MONEY to survive.. Tarzan loses his appeal pretty fast.
Women don't care who you are. They care what you can do for THEM. Women view men as a utility.
You're obviously an old bitter woman.weaponx said:That goes for anyone. Poon applies anything negative that is basically a human trait to women because he offers them nothing knowing they don't want him.
I guess "Poon King" surrounds himself with "quality" that does nothing for him. Because after all "Poon King" offers so much to others and they should be grateful.
Humans should just stay with those who offer them nothing. Great advice.
Do the "DJs" of So Suave make it a habit to chase after those who do nothing for them? If so. That's one of their main problems.
Why bother improving yourselves? After all you just might be showing others you have something to offer.
Poon King said:You're obviously an old bitter woman.
This post reeks of female entitlement. You sound like a woman who got f*cked and chucked one time too many. Then you found SoSuave as a chance to learn more about the male psyche.. to better understand WHY no man would commit to you and WHY all men used you exclusively for sex.
Upon reading the harsh truths presented on this website you were shocked and appalled at the lack of female worship. You expected men to talk about their dreams of one day being part of an amazing power couple with a SMART and highly educated alpha female (like you) whom men drool over because she is so educated and so successful, and her car is so nice. You expected men to say they avoid relationships with such women because they are "intimidated" by her confidence and success.. BUT they dream of being with her. They dream of being with women like Oprah.. smart, rich, successful, etc.
You were disappointed to learn that men don't give two sh!ts about a woman's fancy car, or fancy education or job title. What men were more interested in is f*cking young hotties and MAYBE settling down with a nice submissive sex slave who is 5 to 10 years younger than him.
The truth hurts don't it? Cry more. :crackup:
Yep.. lil' retarded ginger girlie girl temper tantrums and wishful thinking again. Sad stuff.weaponx said:MGTOW's think anyone who isn't as beta and pathetic as they are to hold their hands in agreement like little boys are "women". It's their "easy dismissal" nonsense on being called out on their KJ nonsense. You fear women having power over you in a relationship yet KJ about what an "alpha Poon King" you are online to other men? LMFAO.
You crack me up son.
You aren't getting jack squat. Anyone who isn't a beta pretending to be alpha while whining about women constantly giving them power over themselves while acting like they aren't sees you as pure delusional comedy.
You are a loner. A foreveralone angry man-child. You put women on a high pedestal ranting in every post or thread you make how they are some "enemy" that you are at "war" with....online no less.
Amazing for someone who fantasizes himself as a mythical "slayer" you sure seem to make it a habit of anyone disagreeing with your clown act is a "woman". I guess the keyboard "slayer" only has problems with "women" online?
You embarrass yourself for my amusement.
I mean seriously son. If you want to show and prove why don't you invite out the online alphas where you live to go out and sarge with you...You know. Show and prove to all of us.
Scared?
Poon King said:Yep.. lil' retarded ginger girlie girl temper tantrums and wishful thinking again. Sad stuff.
You are 100% wrong and it seems that you are just furious because of that. :crackup:
You suffer a major public humiliation with every response you make.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.