"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do women loose interest in a relationship

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What behaviors change as the relationship progresses that causes women to slowly become "bored" or loose feelings? How do you keep a relationship from becoming stale?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GeoMan said:
What behaviors change as the relationship progresses that causes women to slowly become "bored" or loose feelings? How do you keep a relationship from becoming stale?

This question has come up before,MANY TIMES. I'll just give you a link to some info that should be able to help you out.

Don't worry.....it's not 50 pages of threads to read. In fact,it's only one page....and you don't even have to read the whole thing,just skip down to reply #14.

Here you go......http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=156533
 

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Not giving them 5 orgasms when you meet kills relationships. I dont care when lames think texting too much kills relationships. Fvck that nonsense.

If you give her orgasms then you can text, not pay, ignore her new nail color, not care about her day.


Just when you do see her, make sure you keep her gushing.

#Realtalk
 

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GeoMan said:
What behaviors change as the relationship progresses that causes women to slowly become "bored" or loose feelings? How do you keep a relationship from becoming stale?
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Familiarity. It doesn't matter is you give the, 5 organs every time you see them, give them a new Porsche every year, yada, yada, yada.....

They think that somewhere else, some other woman has more than they do.

Greener grass is always just a fence away.
 

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A woman's FEELINGS are directly tied to what a man can do for her. In other words.. how a man can improve her life or fill a void.

Women lose interest once a man stops being useful OR once her needs change and she no longer needs what she once did.

For instance..a woman trapped in the jungle will fall in love with Tarzan because he can provide protection and security. But once someone from the modern world finds her and takes her back to a city where you need MONEY to survive.. Tarzan loses his appeal pretty fast.

Women don't care who you are. They care what you can do for THEM. Women view men as a utility.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Poon King said:
A woman's FEELINGS are directly tied to what a man can do for her. In other words.. how a man can improve her life or fill a void.

Women lose interest once a man stops being useful OR once her needs change and she no longer needs what she once did.

For instance..a woman trapped in the jungle will fall in love with Tarzan because he can provide protection and security. But once someone from the modern world finds her and takes her back to a city where you need MONEY to survive.. Tarzan loses his appeal pretty fast.

Women don't care who you are. They care what you can do for THEM. Women view men as a utility.
That goes for anyone. Poon applies anything negative that is basically a human trait to women because he offers them nothing knowing they don't want him.

I guess "Poon King" surrounds himself with "quality" that does nothing for him. Because after all "Poon King" offers so much to others and they should be grateful.

Humans should just stay with those who offer them nothing. Great advice.

Do the "DJs" of So Suave make it a habit to chase after those who do nothing for them? If so. That's one of their main problems.


Why bother improving yourselves? After all you just might be showing others you have something to offer.
 

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Regardless of what poon king does or does not offer I think he would agree the basis for creating attraction to get fvcked is by displaying a high perceived value, whether or not you actually are high value or not. This idea leads into the basis of treating women as disposable idea. Which they should be. Therefore your actual value is to a point a non issue.
 

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Regardless of what poon king does or does not offer I think he would agree the basis for creating attraction to get fvcked is by displaying a high perceived value, whether or not you actually are high value or not.
Tell us.

How does one fake having "high value"?

And if someone claims to not be putting poon on a pedestal they wouldn't at all try to fake perceived value unless they are contradicting their own nonsense they spew to others.

So how do you fake value? Use inflatable muscles? Pretend your good clothes are at the cleaners? Pretend your Bugatti is in the shop? Drive through rich areas pointing to your mansion? Empty your life savings to keep in your pockets? Buy plastic bling from 25 cent machines?

Oh let me guess. You just "talk" the talk. As if no ones ever heard that nonsense before and laughed in your face or behind your back with friends.

You KJ's are a trip.
 

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Wtf is a kj
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Poon King said:
A woman's FEELINGS are directly tied to what a man can do for her. In other words.. how a man can improve her life or fill a void.

Women lose interest once a man stops being useful OR once her needs change and she no longer needs what she once did.

For instance..a woman trapped in the jungle will fall in love with Tarzan because he can provide protection and security. But once someone from the modern world finds her and takes her back to a city where you need MONEY to survive.. Tarzan loses his appeal pretty fast.

Women don't care who you are. They care what you can do for THEM. Women view men as a utility.
This makes so much sence. Explains alot in my eyes.
 

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weaponx said:
That goes for anyone. Poon applies anything negative that is basically a human trait to women because he offers them nothing knowing they don't want him.

I guess "Poon King" surrounds himself with "quality" that does nothing for him. Because after all "Poon King" offers so much to others and they should be grateful.

Humans should just stay with those who offer them nothing. Great advice.

Do the "DJs" of So Suave make it a habit to chase after those who do nothing for them? If so. That's one of their main problems.


Why bother improving yourselves? After all you just might be showing others you have something to offer.
You're obviously an old bitter woman.

This post reeks of female entitlement. You sound like a woman who got f*cked and chucked one time too many. Then you found SoSuave as a chance to learn more about the male psyche.. to better understand WHY no man would commit to you and WHY all men used you exclusively for sex.

Upon reading the harsh truths presented on this website you were shocked and appalled at the lack of female worship. You expected men to talk about their dreams of one day being part of an amazing power couple with a SMART and highly educated alpha female (like you) whom men drool over because she is so educated and so successful, and her car is so nice. You expected men to say they avoid relationships with such women because they are "intimidated" by her confidence and success.. BUT they dream of being with her. They dream of being with women like Oprah.. smart, rich, successful, etc.

You were disappointed to learn that men don't give two sh!ts about a woman's fancy car, or fancy education or job title. What men were more interested in is f*cking young hotties and MAYBE settling down with a nice submissive sex slave who is 5 to 10 years younger than him.

The truth hurts don't it? Cry more. :crackup:
 

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You're obviously an old bitter woman.

This post reeks of female entitlement. You sound like a woman who got f*cked and chucked one time too many. Then you found SoSuave as a chance to learn more about the male psyche.. to better understand WHY no man would commit to you and WHY all men used you exclusively for sex.

Upon reading the harsh truths presented on this website you were shocked and appalled at the lack of female worship. You expected men to talk about their dreams of one day being part of an amazing power couple with a SMART and highly educated alpha female (like you) whom men drool over because she is so educated and so successful, and her car is so nice. You expected men to say they avoid relationships with such women because they are "intimidated" by her confidence and success.. BUT they dream of being with her. They dream of being with women like Oprah.. smart, rich, successful, etc.

You were disappointed to learn that men don't give two sh!ts about a woman's fancy car, or fancy education or job title. What men were more interested in is f*cking young hotties and MAYBE settling down with a nice submissive sex slave who is 5 to 10 years younger than him.

The truth hurts don't it? Cry more. :crackup:

MGTOW's think anyone who isn't as beta and pathetic as they are to hold their hands in agreement like little boys are "women". It's their "easy dismissal" nonsense on being called out on their KJ nonsense. You fear women having power over you in a relationship yet KJ about what an "alpha Poon King" you are online to other men? LMFAO.

You crack me up son.

You aren't getting jack squat. Anyone who isn't a beta pretending to be alpha while whining about women constantly giving them power over themselves while acting like they aren't sees you as pure delusional comedy.

You are a loner. A foreveralone angry man-child. You put women on a high pedestal ranting in every post or thread you make how they are some "enemy" that you are at "war" with....online no less.

Amazing for someone who fantasizes himself as a mythical "slayer" you sure seem to make it a habit of anyone disagreeing with your clown act is a "woman". I guess the keyboard "slayer" only has problems with "women" online?

You embarrass yourself for my amusement.

I mean seriously son. If you want to show and prove why don't you invite out the online alphas where you live to go out and sarge with you...You know. Show and prove to all of us.

Scared?
 

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weaponx said:
MGTOW's think anyone who isn't as beta and pathetic as they are to hold their hands in agreement like little boys are "women". It's their "easy dismissal" nonsense on being called out on their KJ nonsense. You fear women having power over you in a relationship yet KJ about what an "alpha Poon King" you are online to other men? LMFAO.

You crack me up son.

You aren't getting jack squat. Anyone who isn't a beta pretending to be alpha while whining about women constantly giving them power over themselves while acting like they aren't sees you as pure delusional comedy.

You are a loner. A foreveralone angry man-child. You put women on a high pedestal ranting in every post or thread you make how they are some "enemy" that you are at "war" with....online no less.

Amazing for someone who fantasizes himself as a mythical "slayer" you sure seem to make it a habit of anyone disagreeing with your clown act is a "woman". I guess the keyboard "slayer" only has problems with "women" online?

You embarrass yourself for my amusement.

I mean seriously son. If you want to show and prove why don't you invite out the online alphas where you live to go out and sarge with you...You know. Show and prove to all of us.

Scared?
Yep.. lil' retarded ginger girlie girl temper tantrums and wishful thinking again. Sad stuff.

You are 100% wrong and it seems that you are just furious because of that. :crackup:

You suffer a major public humiliation with every response you make.
 

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Yep.. lil' retarded ginger girlie girl temper tantrums and wishful thinking again. Sad stuff.

You are 100% wrong and it seems that you are just furious because of that. :crackup:

You suffer a major public humiliation with every response you make.

Look at you about to have a meltdown and projecting again. Relax son. It's only the internet. Oh, I forgot. It's your "life". lol.

Poon get some professional help for your issues. Women aren't better than you, even though you act like they are..constantly. You've suffered some sort of severe emotional trauma as a child or young teen at the hands of a girl and can only release your anger online attempting to comfort yourself in the company of other men who head nod in agreement.

It's not helping you as that agreement still has you angry, jaded and bitter.

So show us all your skills. Invite your local fellow DJ's out to sarge with you. Show them and us how it's done. Or are you scared?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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