"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do u response to this??

Avn_0903

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A girl said this to me in a playful and teasing way " You make all the girls happy, especially when they compare you to their current boyfriends". I was at a loss of how to make a comeback after this statement lol. ****y and funny anyone??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Avn_0903 said:
A girl said this to me in a playful and teasing way " You make all the girls happy, especially when they compare you to their current boyfriends". I was at a loss of how to make a comeback after this statement lol. ****y and funny anyone??
'Yeah, I get compared to allot of boyfriends and husbands, maybe it's because I'm so awesome...'
 

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No actually wat the statement means here is to say I have lower value than their BFs and that's y they are happy.
 

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I hear ya, I would have given the same response...
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Daddy The Pimp

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why lower value ?

I thought she said IF you are compared with their ex's you would make them happier . Being able to make girl happy is great . But you know , without being a nice guy AFC.

If it was like a compliment , you know , like trying to tell that i have higher value , i would say

C'MON , THATS YOUR BEST PICKUP LINE ?

or

LOL THANKS , BUT YOU GOTTA WORK MORE :D. IM NOT THAT EASY.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No, it's not a compliment, it's a neg. But it's funny and harmless.

She's saying he makes the girls happy (compliment), but...wait for it...especially when they compare him to their bf/husband (neg). It's a neg because she's saying they're happy because their current situation is better than what he would offer.

Very clever. Props to her.
 

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I think that's just a neg (or hopefully lol). So let's say this is an insult, wat would be u guys' comeback?
 

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"It's a good thing I'm not trying to be anyone's BORE-Friend."
 

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yeah I would stay away from that girl. She knew exactly what she was saying and the implication it gives. It doesn't matter that she does it in a playful way (unless you've been giving her sh1t just before that).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Avn_0903 said:
A girl said this to me in a playful and teasing way " You make all the girls happy, especially when they compare you to their current boyfriends"
"Glad to hear I make girls happy. Where do you want to go tonight?"
 

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Avn_0903 said:
A girl said this to me in a playful and teasing way " You make all the girls happy, especially when they compare you to their current boyfriends". I was at a loss of how to make a comeback after this statement lol. ****y and funny anyone??
"that's only cuz they I never slept with them"
 
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