Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do u response to this??

Avn_0903

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A girl said this to me in a playful and teasing way " You make all the girls happy, especially when they compare you to their current boyfriends". I was at a loss of how to make a comeback after this statement lol. ****y and funny anyone??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sinful

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Avn_0903 said:
A girl said this to me in a playful and teasing way " You make all the girls happy, especially when they compare you to their current boyfriends". I was at a loss of how to make a comeback after this statement lol. ****y and funny anyone??
'Yeah, I get compared to allot of boyfriends and husbands, maybe it's because I'm so awesome...'
 

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No actually wat the statement means here is to say I have lower value than their BFs and that's y they are happy.
 

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I hear ya, I would have given the same response...
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Daddy The Pimp

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why lower value ?

I thought she said IF you are compared with their ex's you would make them happier . Being able to make girl happy is great . But you know , without being a nice guy AFC.

If it was like a compliment , you know , like trying to tell that i have higher value , i would say

C'MON , THATS YOUR BEST PICKUP LINE ?

or

LOL THANKS , BUT YOU GOTTA WORK MORE :D. IM NOT THAT EASY.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PhatE1vis

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No, it's not a compliment, it's a neg. But it's funny and harmless.

She's saying he makes the girls happy (compliment), but...wait for it...especially when they compare him to their bf/husband (neg). It's a neg because she's saying they're happy because their current situation is better than what he would offer.

Very clever. Props to her.
 

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I think that's just a neg (or hopefully lol). So let's say this is an insult, wat would be u guys' comeback?
 

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"It's a good thing I'm not trying to be anyone's BORE-Friend."
 

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yeah I would stay away from that girl. She knew exactly what she was saying and the implication it gives. It doesn't matter that she does it in a playful way (unless you've been giving her sh1t just before that).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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A girl said this to me in a playful and teasing way " You make all the girls happy, especially when they compare you to their current boyfriends"
"Glad to hear I make girls happy. Where do you want to go tonight?"
 

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Avn_0903 said:
A girl said this to me in a playful and teasing way " You make all the girls happy, especially when they compare you to their current boyfriends". I was at a loss of how to make a comeback after this statement lol. ****y and funny anyone??
"that's only cuz they I never slept with them"
 
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