"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how do u pick yourself back up?

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chancer

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Hey guys, I'm starting to feel like i'm not progressing because i've been seeing the same girls for about 3 months now (off and on). She's really cool, it's just that she's sick right now. I haven't seen her in like two weeks, and been busy with midterms and work. Regardless of how busy my life might be, it's starting to bug me. I'm not having as much fun as I had this summer. There was this sexy ass girl flaunting her boobs at me at school, and didn't act on it. It's like i need a kick in the ass or something to get going. Anyway, I started working out again, it always seems to do me a lot of good in the long run. How do some of you motivate yourselves when feeling down or just about there? how do u pick yourself back up?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whenever I feel down, I usually hit the gym and train for an hour straight, so what you're doing now is very good.

One thing I also like to do is remember the times before I felt depressed/down. That gives me the energy I need to move on with my life; knowing that good times are up ahead again is all I need to know. Not everything in life will go your way, but you must remember to not let it affect you. You're probably feeling this way because of the winter that's coming up. My advice to you is to find a new hobby and keep yourself busy throughout this tough season. It's going to be ****ty weather for a few months, so look forward to the summer next year.
 
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So since a woman that isn't in an exclusive relationship isn't available, you get down?

What's wrong with you, as harsh as it may sound, is that you need a life. Why didn't you apply yourself with the boob girl? The boob girl and every other byatch, get on it, start getting those #s, and start getting slobbed.

And whatever you do, don't even consider getting into a ltr with the 3 month girl. Nope, ... no...


and NO!
 
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