"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how do u pick yourself back up?

chancer

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Hey guys, I'm starting to feel like i'm not progressing because i've been seeing the same girls for about 3 months now (off and on). She's really cool, it's just that she's sick right now. I haven't seen her in like two weeks, and been busy with midterms and work. Regardless of how busy my life might be, it's starting to bug me. I'm not having as much fun as I had this summer. There was this sexy ass girl flaunting her boobs at me at school, and didn't act on it. It's like i need a kick in the ass or something to get going. Anyway, I started working out again, it always seems to do me a lot of good in the long run. How do some of you motivate yourselves when feeling down or just about there? how do u pick yourself back up?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mmx

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Whenever I feel down, I usually hit the gym and train for an hour straight, so what you're doing now is very good.

One thing I also like to do is remember the times before I felt depressed/down. That gives me the energy I need to move on with my life; knowing that good times are up ahead again is all I need to know. Not everything in life will go your way, but you must remember to not let it affect you. You're probably feeling this way because of the winter that's coming up. My advice to you is to find a new hobby and keep yourself busy throughout this tough season. It's going to be ****ty weather for a few months, so look forward to the summer next year.
 

SamePendo

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So since a woman that isn't in an exclusive relationship isn't available, you get down?

What's wrong with you, as harsh as it may sound, is that you need a life. Why didn't you apply yourself with the boob girl? The boob girl and every other byatch, get on it, start getting those #s, and start getting slobbed.

And whatever you do, don't even consider getting into a ltr with the 3 month girl. Nope, ... no...


and NO!
 
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