"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How do u not get pissed?

DJinTraining06

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Do any of u guys just get livid when girls give u a bs story, and they inisist on it and act all self righteous, when u know for a fact they're full of sh*t?

I can't figure out why i get soo mad at them. I end up getting so pissed at them and having fights and then we stop speaking. I can't let go and leave on good terms with a girl. I always gotta insist they admit they lied and crap. Why do i do this? Is it cuz im upset bout the girl not likin me, or is it somethin else. I wish i didn get pissed and just didnt care less about it, so that id have some girls that may eventually come back to me or at least myspace friends who were leaving me comments lol to make me look like i had alot of female interest. but i always just get mad and make it so final. I even tried seeing 3 girls recently, was spinning 3 plates at once and i still got mad at 1 of them who basically rejected me. I dunno i think ive become bitter. Maybe that's it I take past frustrations out on them. Any of u have this problem?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJinTraining06 said:
... I dunno i think ive become bitter. Maybe that's it I take past frustrations out on them. Any of u have this problem?
You've been here a while, you already know the answer.
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
Do any of u guys just get livid when girls give u a bs story, and they inisist on it and act all self righteous, when u know for a fact they're full of sh*t?
If you want to have anything to do with women, get used to it. They're all full of BS...they just hide it well. Don't get pissed...it's just a skirt.
 

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Freud would wonder whether you have issues with your mother's honesty/behaviour.

People lie, always have done, always will. Don't allow their negative waves to harsh your mellow, man.
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
Do any of u guys just get livid when girls give u a bs story, and they inisist on it and act all self righteous, when u know for a fact they're full of sh*t?
Of course. My recent success with maintaining my current HB8.5 is being refined to a formula:

You want to combine 3 key things:

1) Humor (to start with when you meet her)
2) Absence (never contact her every day)
3) Passion (make sure the time you are together is dream-like in her memories - plan every detail).

This is the HAP program. If you don't have the HAP program, you are HAPless! (I just wrote that one!)

Any time you sense BS - it's time for Absence. Then, when you return to her after 3-6 days, use Humor, then return to Passion. Mix and match all 3 in an unpredictable pattern and you'll have them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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