1337 said:
It depends if your nervous then she becomes nervous. So make your self comfortable and at home around her and she will get that energy from you and relax also.
Spot-on.
Okay, i was planning to start a new, revised thread on Kino for this, but guess i'll write it all here.
It depends on what your style is. Don't work your game on her in the club if you actually know her and she's not a one night thing. Ask her out during the day.
Talk to her, ask her questions, dig deep. Get her to pour herself out to you if you can. Ask her if she's into animals, then what kind of animals, and why that animal. Of course, don't be a robot.
If you feel that you are a highly sexual and alpha person while being around her, talking to her,
don't kino. I'd put it this way, if you can kino with your eyes and speech, you won't need kino at all, unless you have took a wrong step and made her feel that you're not attracted to her. Do light kino instead, periodically.
Well, you ask, how would i know if i need to kino or not? At the start of the date, after some quality interaction (this is important), if you guys happen to be walking through a crowd, subtly put your hand on her shoulder and guide her along. Be careful not to overdo it, be cool, just for a short while. 8 out of 10 times, before you even know it, this is like a move where you're giving her
permission to kino you. If she's attracted to you, she will start touching you at every opportunity.
Do light-kino, instead of the usual drills. Use kino as more of a test to find out if she's genuinely interested. It's not for building rapport and comfort. You are already doing that with your light-hearted conversations. Do kino from time to time, until you reach the stage where she seems totally comfortable, loving it, and wants more of it. Wait, don't get over-excited, that's when you cut it off for a while. Then go again. :yes:
