"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how do u get women so excited they want to hangout with u

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You have to keep practicing until you find a subject they like.

Here are some things your girl does NOT like to talk about:

1) Yourself.
2) Your video games.
3) Your high score.
4) Your car.
5) Your job.
6) Your ex girlfriend (although a few hot photos can help).

Here are some things your girl DOES like to talk about:

1) Herself.
2) Her birthday.
3) Her horoscope.
4) Her relationships.
5) Her first love.
6) Her favorite movie, song or hobby.
7) Future travel plans.

Once you find the right subject, you'll have the girls lined up to talk to you enthusiastically, but it has to be something that impresses them. For example, palm reading, etc. Getting them to text enthusiastically is another art altogether. Then, getting them to date you enthusiastically is a third art. Finally, get them to have sex enthusiastically is the end game. It's really 4 skills that you need to develop.
 

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bigneil said:
For example, palm reading
Neil, your advice is usually solid - but palm reading is so David Deangelo Double Your Dating, circa 2002. Next you'll be telling him to ask a girl to settle a bet between him and his friend then ask her if she has email ;)
 

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its not wat you say... its the way you say it the way you communicated
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can u explain how to have good txt skills? What are examples i can text girl to wanna go out??
 

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Just look like Cristiano Ronaldo. They'll surely be excited to see you then.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Have a much superior status then her so she is in total awe of you. Or have a tremendous personality where you are are making her have and have lots of fun. But just don't fall into the entertainer mode.
 
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Ok well how do i do that and get that personality? Obviously being regular me and talkin to women bout whatever isnt working help
 
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I cant im sorry i got in bad wreck 21 months takea for foot to regrow nerves cant drive only see friends on wknds or talk to girls online
 
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