"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how do u get women so excited they want to hangout with u

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You have to keep practicing until you find a subject they like.

Here are some things your girl does NOT like to talk about:

1) Yourself.
2) Your video games.
3) Your high score.
4) Your car.
5) Your job.
6) Your ex girlfriend (although a few hot photos can help).

Here are some things your girl DOES like to talk about:

1) Herself.
2) Her birthday.
3) Her horoscope.
4) Her relationships.
5) Her first love.
6) Her favorite movie, song or hobby.
7) Future travel plans.

Once you find the right subject, you'll have the girls lined up to talk to you enthusiastically, but it has to be something that impresses them. For example, palm reading, etc. Getting them to text enthusiastically is another art altogether. Then, getting them to date you enthusiastically is a third art. Finally, get them to have sex enthusiastically is the end game. It's really 4 skills that you need to develop.
 

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bigneil said:
For example, palm reading
Neil, your advice is usually solid - but palm reading is so David Deangelo Double Your Dating, circa 2002. Next you'll be telling him to ask a girl to settle a bet between him and his friend then ask her if she has email ;)
 

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its not wat you say... its the way you say it the way you communicated
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Can u explain how to have good txt skills? What are examples i can text girl to wanna go out??
 

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Just look like Cristiano Ronaldo. They'll surely be excited to see you then.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have a much superior status then her so she is in total awe of you. Or have a tremendous personality where you are are making her have and have lots of fun. But just don't fall into the entertainer mode.
 
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Ok well how do i do that and get that personality? Obviously being regular me and talkin to women bout whatever isnt working help
 
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I cant im sorry i got in bad wreck 21 months takea for foot to regrow nerves cant drive only see friends on wknds or talk to girls online
 
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