"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how do u get women so excited they want to hangout with u

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You have to keep practicing until you find a subject they like.

Here are some things your girl does NOT like to talk about:

1) Yourself.
2) Your video games.
3) Your high score.
4) Your car.
5) Your job.
6) Your ex girlfriend (although a few hot photos can help).

Here are some things your girl DOES like to talk about:

1) Herself.
2) Her birthday.
3) Her horoscope.
4) Her relationships.
5) Her first love.
6) Her favorite movie, song or hobby.
7) Future travel plans.

Once you find the right subject, you'll have the girls lined up to talk to you enthusiastically, but it has to be something that impresses them. For example, palm reading, etc. Getting them to text enthusiastically is another art altogether. Then, getting them to date you enthusiastically is a third art. Finally, get them to have sex enthusiastically is the end game. It's really 4 skills that you need to develop.
 

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bigneil said:
For example, palm reading
Neil, your advice is usually solid - but palm reading is so David Deangelo Double Your Dating, circa 2002. Next you'll be telling him to ask a girl to settle a bet between him and his friend then ask her if she has email ;)
 

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its not wat you say... its the way you say it the way you communicated
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can u explain how to have good txt skills? What are examples i can text girl to wanna go out??
 

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Just look like Cristiano Ronaldo. They'll surely be excited to see you then.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Have a much superior status then her so she is in total awe of you. Or have a tremendous personality where you are are making her have and have lots of fun. But just don't fall into the entertainer mode.
 
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Ok well how do i do that and get that personality? Obviously being regular me and talkin to women bout whatever isnt working help
 
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I cant im sorry i got in bad wreck 21 months takea for foot to regrow nerves cant drive only see friends on wknds or talk to girls online
 
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