"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do u DJ when a girl approach u like this?

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ICaughtFire

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yesterday our school had this swimming competition and even the non swimmers have to go to the pool and watch other ppl swim representing their houses.

i was just standing along the fences with my friends then this girl comes and stand close to me, and started kino with her elbow. It was quite obvious since there's so much space to my left she didn't need to stand so close to me

so she just kino me with her elbow with mine again and again while pretending she was talking to her friend who just came too, i just stood there and occasionally caught her glancing back at me.

i didn't mind make out with a HB7 instead of sleeping talking to friends watching the boring competition playing PSP but how would i suppose to approach her?

one, she brought her friend there, which isn't wise for her case since she wanted to approach me first, second, my friends were beside me too which can prove to be ****block (no they are not wingmen)

i ended up doing nothing and she gave up and just walked away with her firend and never return. I didn't mind since she was just an HB7/8 but what would i do if im in that situation again?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HHloser2

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to your friend" Ah another one of those stalkers get th 911 phone readY!;) " then turn around and say hi.
 
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Inquire

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when the two chicks arent talkin make ur move, wit "do u like me, or just like touchin me?"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm sick and tired of hearing "what should i HAVE done!?"

Just talk to her. The ice was broken already when she kinoed you.
You could have said, "I know you like touching me BUT i will have to charge you, just like everyone else!"

Not saying anything was the worst thing you did. You both knew what was going on (your were touching each other) BUT pretending that you didn't feel a thing or ignoring that is not going to get result. LOOK AT WHAT HAPPEND....................SHE LEFT......................GAME OVER............YOU NEVER SAW HER AGAIN.

When you approach you have a 50/50 chance.............Regection or approval. When you don't approach/talk (whatever the situation is), you have a 0 % chance.

Don't let it happen again.
 
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slap her ass and tell her only you get to do the touching

on a more serious note i would have just pretended to walk away be hind her and then just started tickling her. shes already kinoing u just turn it up
 
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starting some healthy conversation would be ideal.
 
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